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30-35,
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writes:hi my old crush has a gf who goes to my school and I never got the courage to tell him how i feel. However i tried my best to get over him and now i keep on seeing him and the butterflys are coming back and i really dont think i should like him again as i dont want to get hurt again. how can i control my feelings towards him?
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 hey i went through a veeeery similar situation with my fiance. we have known eachother for a few years from work. while we were working together i realized i had fallen for him. but just after i came to that realization he got a gf. i was dissapointed and confused. but i promised myself i would never try to steal him from her. they dated for 8 months, and me and him remained good friends. the part where things got messy was when he realized he had fallen for me too, only he was still with the other girl. we went about it wrong and started seeing eachother about 2 weeks before he broke it off with his gf. we have happily been together for ayear and a half now. try not to follow our road, it was not easy and we lost a lot of friends because of it. hold on until he either dumps her or move on if he doesnt seem likely to. i know its hard, but you dont want to be the bf stealer. if he likes you, he'll realize it, but dont try and ruin their relationship. its not fair to the other girl.
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