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I have a 4yo and am pregnant, how do I improve my life for my children and me?

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Question - (27 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *ada101 writes:

Im 21 years old I have a 4 year old baby girl and im 16 weeks preg... I want to be sombody in life. But I don't know were to start. I fished high school but don't know how if my reading math ext is really bad. I want togo to school but I don't know if I would be any good at doing anything because im not book smart at all. Im very street smart what job would I b able to get that I would be good at. I want to be sombody in life. But im so scared to fail so this is stopin me from going to school. I know that I have to goto school if I want to have a better life but what do I do how do I start I do I stop being scared

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A female reader, jada101 United States +, writes (1 April 2010):

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jada101 agony auntThanks everybody for your help... I started looikin on line for schools. And I think I want to tack this CNA class.. I found a school that is $600.00 I just have to wait untill I have my baby till then im going to try to put up the cash. I know it doesn't sound like much cash for school but im only workin part time and my bf lost his job and bills been crazy....

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (27 March 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntTech school, is designed for people like you. You need to get with an academic counselor and see what programs you would be interested in. They can also help you get financial aid to pay for the classes.

It is good to see you wanting to improve your life.

FA

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010):

There are so many places on the internet that will help you find something you enjoy that you can turn into a career.

Sit down and make a list of what you love to do, then make another list of what you're good at. Look at the lists side by side and see if any items match up. This should show you the direction to take in your job search. I did this and found a wonderful new job that brings me joy (and and income) daily .

You'd be surprised how far street smarts will take you. You just have to find your niche.

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