A
female
age
,
anonymous
writes:I have linked with a guy I have fancies for over a year on facebook. He hinted he wanted to linkkk. There is mutual attraction between us. Whenever I see him his sister tries to keep us apart. She likes me and keeps saying I will do for him but she is friends with my ex-partner! I told her I was not happy but did not want to disrespect my ex with her.this guy has not attempted to move things on because of this.I can not stop thinking about him.Any advice as to how I can move things on.
View related questions:
facebook, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, $izZle  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 I may be a little too young to say anything in this matter please forgive me if I'm wrong but i do feel that she is feeling insecure or something like that or she is afraid of any friction that might occur just let her see that your ex is ok with all that is going on and she need not worry.... and I'm sure she will grow out of it and if you are looking for a serious relationship with this man i believe that you should know him a little better at this point in time because I can conclude from your words that he is hesitating .... and that should not happen when he is certain about something, and you are talking about his sister who is close to him not someone that is away from his life so he should be able to sort things out with her with no problems .... but hey that's just how i feel :P
A
female
reader, DrPsych  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 I think you need to stop conducting your relationship with this man online. Facebook is frankly confusing and not really the place to get relationships moving. I can see the sister being frustrating but she is not a problem. She is only identified as a problem because things are not moving forward with this guy as you would hope - it is easy to blame her. I am not saying she is blameless, maybe she doesn't wish for her brother to date you...but ultimately couples face many obstacles in their relationships and should be able to overcome them. I think if this man wanted a relationship with you then he would let you know and move things on, regardless of others opinions. If he is a gutless wonder who cannot stand up for his own right to happiness do you really want him? I think the best thing you can do is on the next occasion that you see him out and about then pounce and ask him out for a drink. If he declines, move on with your life and find someone less complicated.
...............................
|
