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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got ...

I'm having huge problems with my cold and withdrawn father! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - hey i dont live with my parents anymore but ive a huge prob with my father and its affected me my whole life. He always lived with us and hes not physically abusive or anything but he is the coldest most withdrawn person. He always expects my mother ...

I've been developing some strange sexual fetishes. Will this affect my relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at the moment and it is the wrong sort of girls i attract. Si...

Why can't my ex-boyfriend be my friend at least?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 31 years old and many of you may be wondering what is she doing here? But believe me it gets worse with age....I fell in love with someone who dumped me 2 months ago. I didnt see him for long, only 4 months but found him to be just the kind of ...

I can't imagine leaving my family and mainly my son, but I desperately want to be with this other woman-Can I have advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I have been married for the past 9 years and, like many others I'm sure, the past few years have been rocky ones. I have always done everything in my power to make my wife happy. We have moved 3 times to different homes because she wanted bigger ...

Pregnant with twins and just found out husband is cheating on me, I really need some help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi im 7 months pregnant with identical twins and have a 2 year old boy aswell i have just found out tht my husbund is cheating on me. And as been doing so for around 9 months. Im heart broken and i cant look at him or touch him he makes me feel sick ...

I need an outsiders perspective of family problems disrupting our wedding plans?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi, Me and my fiance are due to get married in July. It's now almost May and she wants to call it off. The problem started when we got engaged. My parents started treating my GF different in a big way. It became a big problem and I became dep...

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

My recent BF could be facing jail for a crime committed while drunk. I love him, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Me And my boyfriend have been dating now for 3 months an he could be facing jail soon for a crime he done wen he was drunk.Most of my family hate him but im head over heels in love with him What Should I Do???...

I'm a virgin and have developed a tense brooding state and a sort of unusual complex since my mother touched me sexually!! Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi friends I am virgin guy in my twenties. Please read this carefully and come out with a good solution. I discuss with my family all my problems. I was a bit tense those days due to my job and also feeling alone.There was whitewashing going on...

I'm really worried about my little sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I'm really worried about my little sister. She's 13 and I'm 17 and we really don't get on very well. We used to argue alot but then we used to make up again but since my parents split up 2 years ago she has really got me worried. She hates me c...

I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hi. i really don't know what to do anymore. i've benn fallin for my boyfriends brother harder and harder and now it's reached the point i can't stand the pain. ive been with my bf for a year now and i love him. at least im confortable with him. but ...

Mum's boyfriend is making my life a misery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Everything's going a bit wrong here. My mum's new boyfriend has moved in and he's making life a real misery. He mostly ignores me, but if he does talk to me it's only to tell me to fetch a beer from the fridge. When he's been to the pub he's even ...

My friends have turned against me for apparently no reason! I've no one to turn to, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I feel so alone. Most of my friends left school and didnt stay on at college. The ones that have, have suddenly turned against me for no reason at all.I have no-one to turn to. ...

Can anybody tell me what can I do to make him understand that his sister is taking advantage of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My husband is so much obsessed with his sister that he believes whatever she says is true. He doesn't even think whether she is telling the truth or not. He is not ready to hear a single word against her at all. He keeps giving her money whenever ...

My husband and my brother??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My husband recently admitted, after 24 years of marriage, that he's been having an affair with my gay brother for the past three years. They've just moved in together, leaving me with three kids (ages 16, 12 and 8) and all the bills to pay. I work...

I honestly don't want to do this course, but feel I can't let my parents down.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I don't know if this question is relevant to Dear Cupid. I'm just hoping i can get some good advice. I'm 19 in 2 weeks. Young to some, very old to me. I got my A-levels last year. Not amazing grades (through no fault of my own,i was off 3 months...

I'm really falling for this guy, but I don't know what his game is, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I have become friends with a 37yr old guy over the past ten months (i am a 33yr old single mum with a 4yr old son). We met on an internet dating site and he initiated the contact at first with a nice email. We continued converstaion for several week...

Where can my friend get support to help her move away from her abuse problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I nees to find some where for my friend to move to. She is being abused and is need of going out of state because she has six children and has to find some place to call their own....

Sleeping with a married man and jealous of his wife and baby..what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Im sleeping with a maried man and i thibnk i might be falling in love with him. Im jealous of his wife and i cant handle that he has just had a baby with her. what should i do?...

I can't say NO to her. I want to make her happy even if I am not. How do we untangle this mess?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - In the past ten years I can only think of only two time that I have been happy. The first time was when I enlisted in the Marine Corps. I served in Iraq from the start until June 2003(being a senior unit and having been stateside for one month out ...

I think my sister in law wants me and I want her to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - My sister in law has become a lot more sentual around me as of late. in ten years never have we even dicussed sex, and yesterday my wife told me that she wanted me to go with her shopping. we went to go get her a new dildo.so my question is should ...

We break up and he suddenly texts me to marry him. I accept and now he is unexpectedly in Jamaica visiting his ex family?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - me and my fiance have been having a lot of pathetic arguments lately due to trust issues,i ended it 2 wks ago after 10 days of no contact he txt me and asked me to marry him which i said yes as i love him just as much as i thought he loved me.t...

Is there any chance of us being together in spite of our families and school trying to break us up? We pertain to different races.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - About 8 months ago a guy from school and I started getting close.( He is currently deputy head boy and black, I'm white) At first I took everything he said to me as a joke cos I couldn't see how one of the most popular guys at school could like me. ...

Who do you think passed on the infection? I feel so alone, trapped, scared and stupid...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

27 April 2008 (?) - I now have an STD. I feel soooo unlucky. Since my ex left me for the other women i tried to move on from him. I met someone at a bbq and 6 months later we slept together. The condom came off inside me (I dont think it fit him correctly). He also ...

My girlfriend's parents pretend that I buy all that is necessary to their daughter! I'm her partner, not her sustainer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - The parents of my gf is getting on my last nerve(The father is who I dislike the most). On one end I have the mother telling her to get what she can and what ever she does get paid for it. And on the other side the father is telling me that it is my ...

I want to be free of her, but I'm worried it'll break her heart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I have a girlfriend which happens to be my officemate. She is very possessive, a very jealous type of person, and always talks about my past especially my ex so we ended up fighting everyday. I can't be myself whenever i am with her, my family don't ...

I am 18 and he is 27 and we're in love. Could problems arise with this age difference between us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Hello all, I recently got involved with a man a fair bit older than I. We both new that it was probably not a good idea, but we just fell in love. I am 18 and he is 27. He is very kind and polite, he does not rush me in anything. Are there proble...

My parents are constantly complaining. I'm doing everything properly, so why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - My parents stop me or complain constantly when i do things properly. I play the organ, cycle and run alot and most recently i have taken up karate. I stay active as a way to control my agression. However my parents constantly have a go saying i am c...

I love him but is our relationship doomed if we don't want the same things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I am 28 and have a 9 year old daughter. I am in a long term relationship with a man for 5 years. I desperatly want to get married and have done for 2 years but he's not having it, coming up with excuses. I have recently moved 300 miles away from...

I cannot let him choose between his family and I, but how to forget him since we work together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - My close friend told me about 7 months that he loved me and i was so shocked, but then i realised i liked him too... the situation was difficult because he was married but seperated and we work together so we were I guess sneaking around. He i...

I am not sure how to say goodbye to his daughter. I really like the kid, and will miss her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend. When we got together, he was still very involved with his ex-girlfriend, they were sleeping together, he was paying her rent, he would compliment me and say "but C can never know that I said that." He told me that ...

Is it okay to date or have a sexual relationship with your cousin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - I haven't seen my second cousin in 28 years and she a complete knock out. I asked her if she wanted to do lunch and she accepted. We did lunch. I'm just not sure if it's okay to continue this fraternizing. We talk a lot with each other. We have good ...

This is the BEST and WORST situation EVER!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - Ok, last year my dad met a woman...She is a really nice woman and I have no problem whatsoever with her. And they moved in with is. She has a daughter 1 year younger than me, and she is pretty much drop dead gorgeous. My dad and her mom are not ...

My stepdad is in jail for drugs and I don't want to lose the bond I have with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - please help. my ex step dad and I are really close and he is like my friend, and now he had taken drugs and is now in jail. I am exterenly hurt, confused and angery. I don't know what I am going to do. please give me some advice on how to get ...

Why is my sister so obsessed with wanting to look like me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Hi everyone this isn't really a love problem but you are always so helpful that maybe you can help me with this this: Ok my older sister (she's 26 i'm 21). She tries to look like me, i just got a fringe cut in and now she's asking where i got it d...

Why doesn't my husband's brother and wife invite us to their parties? Is it because of me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - My husband's brother and his wife never invite us anywhere. They have parties and get togethers and we aren't invited. I personally think it is because I used to date a guy that is in their "circle", but what is odd is that they were never frie...

Sitting in front of the TV or computer is the next best thing to relieving stress...or is it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

25 April 2008 (?) - I hear our wives complain that we men come home and either sit in front of the TV or go onto the computer and play games. It dawned on me, being all stressed out, not sure what to do to fix the problems. I toss and turn in my head, that I realize th...

How do I get my parents to allow my boyfriend and I to have a sleepover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - How do I get my parents to allow my boyfriend and I to have a sleepover? I've asked before and was told no, but that was a year ago. Is this a trust issue or what....

We're on a break but her nan just died, should I go to the funeral and comfort her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - Hi back again..... "Hi My girlfriend of a year and a half just told me she wants to go on a break, she says she rushed into the relationship and had just finished a 6 month one and she says she now need time to think and be on her own,...

Should I try to revive my relation with the ex, in spite of my friends and family that may disagree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - I have become close again with my ex-girlfriend. I love her to bits and always have and i think she wants to start something up again as we kissed the other day. She broke up with me 6 months ago because we kept arguing. We now have different frie...

I want to marry him but he has a child and I come from a traditional background. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - I'm 21 and absolutely in love with a man whose 30. He already has a 4 year old from a previous relationship. I know for a fact he is ready to marry me. I want to marry him as well, but one thing keeps me from saying "yes", and that is the fact ...

Can I win my Ex Back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - Briefly as poss, my ex broke up with me nearly 2.5months ago now, said it didn't feel right anymore and didn't fancy me, we were together 3.5years (she lived with me most of time in my house round corner from her family home) and incidentally she ...

So confused! My Husband 'doesn't know what he wants anymore' and now I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - I am a 34 year old Women and have been married for 7 years together for 8. We have 3 Beautiful. My husband has just recently told me that he does not know what he wants right now. That he is very confussed and that he still loves me and loves our ...

I have a crush on him but my parents are SO embarassing, how do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - I'm 12 and i have a crush on someone. But, my parents are embarassing so i can't ask him out and i don't know if he likes me. HELP ME!!!!...

How can my sister go from extreme suicidal despair and psychosis to being chirpy and happy over an hour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if someone can give me some ideas about what is wrong with my sister? She's 22 years old. When she was 17, she began suffering from depression, which led to anorexia. I personally believe that it was the acne medication ...

I feel my father doesn't enjoy his life, is only working all the time; he also misinterprets my remarks, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

23 April 2008 (M) - I am a guy in my twenties. I have problems with my father. He doesnt enjoy his life. He is manager in some firm. Just goes to work, come home and sleeps.And this is his daily routine. Whereas my personality is totally different. I like to enjoy as ...

I have a crush on my mom's cousin! I think he likes me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do.I have a crush on my mum's cousin.He isnt much older than me.Should i tell him how i feel or not ?. He has smiled alot at me, asked if i have a boyfriend afew times, danced with me at a party and bought me a drink, and he ha...

My desire is awakened by his sight although I initiated the break up! How to get over my ex when a child is in the picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Hi, Well this is a first for me, but besides from councelling, i don't know what else to do. Me and my ex were together for 6 years. At 19 we had a child together (not planned) and at the age of 20, we broke up. The last year has been a rollerco...

I hate to have to pretend to my parents about my sexual orientation. When is a right time to come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I've trying to tell my mom and dad that I'm a lesbian for a while now. I just don't know when the BEST time is, and only someone that has allready come out/has a child that has come out to them can understand when. I'm so sick of havin...