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writes: I am 28 and have a 9 year old daughter. I am in a long term relationship with a man for 5 years. I desperatly want to get married and have done for 2 years but he's not having it, coming up with excuses. I have recently moved 300 miles away from friends and family to move to where he is from. I also want more children in the future and but he does not seem keen. He says he wants these things too but I have to be patient, but he has been saying these things for the past year. I do love him but is our relationship doomed if we don't want the same things? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, salvation +, writes (27 April 2008):
i dont think your relationship is doomed you just need to talk to him about this properly and make it clear that you dont mind waiting but its something you do want explain to him how you feel i think he might even be a little scared by these things.
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