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writes:I have a girlfriend which happens to be my officemate. She is very possessive, a very jealous type of person, and always talks about my past especially my ex so we ended up fighting everyday. I can't be myself whenever i am with her, my family don't like her, and she don't like my family either.One day she broke up with me, i supposed to be happy, but i don't know why i tried to work things out with her again. Is it because i can still see her in the office? I want to be free from her but i don't want to break her heart and be angry with me. I don't want our relationship in the office be affected. Please help me.. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): Never mix business with pleasure. However, do people listen? Nope.
You have to let her know what's the deal. If your situation get out of hand, this will affect your job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): Yes, it is because you see her everyday that you cant let go.
She must move on and once she does both of you will be able to move on. Or of course you need to leave depending on you situation.
I dont think you need to be too wirried about breaking her heart... it happens. just let her down easily okay???
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 you really need to tell her that things have to change because if not then it will affect you in the long run. If your unhappy then you should end this relationship, your office realtionship will be affected a little bit. All relationship endings usually have some affect to them. Try to stay friends or avoid her if you want her to leave you alone at the office. Tell her you had her best interests at heart because truthfully you did.
hope this helped=]
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