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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I honestly want to just help her and get her away from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - I have a female friend who I love and care for very much. She is recently divorced ( for three months and were seperated for two years). She filed for the divorce because he had an affair and is keeping it going. She gave him numurous chances for ...

I'm jealous because he can't let go of the mothers of his children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i met my partner two and a half years ago, we had an affair, he left his wife and moved in with me eighteen months ago. he has two children with the wife and another little one who lives ten minutes from us. my problem is that neither of the two ...

Caught between my partner and daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I have a problem. My 22 year old only daughter, from my previous marriage, "Jane", who is a senior in college, has fallen in love and become engaged to a 31 year old carpenter, "Don", who has 3 young children by 2 different mothers. Jane and Don ...

My bf hates my family! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend seems to hate my family and is really against them. i really love him and want him to love them back. what should i do? please help me...

My husband needs to grow up and put me and our baby, on his priority list. We hardly see him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6628 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've been married for 5 years and we have a baby daughter. My husband owns his own businesses and works hard to provide for us. We decided that I'd give up my career and stay home with our daughter. I loved that decision and am happy to be home. ...

Is it normal for my little 9 year old sister to enjoy bathing with her 9 year old friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - hey all cupids, i have a very weird question, but here just a lil bak ground info first. i am 15 yr old and my lil sister is 9(laura). we share a room and we r very close. she has a best friend(danny)also 9. they are togther all the time which is ...

My Mom as this annoying way of comparing her figure to mine! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My mum and I have very different figures, she's got a small bum, and thin legs, and no chest, whereas I've got a large bum and larger thighs, small waist and large bust. However, I'm happy with my body. I like having a more womanly shape, however my ...

Brotherly love

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - I have been involved in a sexual relationship with my younger brother for nearly twenty years now. We first had sex when he was twelve and I sixteen. I became pregnant with his child and gave birth to a healthy baby boy. Unsure as to what I should ...

Should i lie to my folks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My bf is leavin the country soon we both stay in different cities he cant come n see me and now he wants me to come there, i have to take a lot of risks if i really wanted to see him but still he wants me to come.my folks will never let me go if i ...

How do I cope with snoopy relatives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I have noticed that some relatives try to snoop in my personal life, and get into things that are absolutely none of their business. I don't hate them, but I don't want them interfering in my private life. I am an adult and I need some privacy....

My little nephew is trying to be like me. I am worried he's trying to grow up to fast? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I have a six-year-old nephew, who tries to be on the same page as me. I understand that he wants to feel more grown-up, but there are just some things that he will not be able to do, until he reaches a certain age, and I don't want him to feel ...

His mood changed really suddenly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I had the weirdest experience with my boyfriend tonight. We were collecting our scholarships and it was the first time my parents had met his. We hadnt seen each other for a week and he had been more distant than normal e.g texting me less, no...

I have touched my sister

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - i love my sister,she is younger than me with 10 years she is 26 , i had touched her twice during her sleeping and she had feel me but she made her self sleeping,and we touched each other in the swimming pool,but as we having fun in the water, please ...

Well, I'm no saint

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Subject: Almost 20 years married, no sex for almost 8 - ready to finally leave. I never thought I'd be in this dilemma. I just hope this experience will help someone. I've been married to the sweetest and kindest woman I know for almost ...

Why can't my fiancee understand why I love my kids more than her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - I was married for 9 years, but split with my wife just over a year ago, we have 3 children together. I have been engaged to another girl for 3 and a half months and love her dearly. We live 300 miles apart and I live close to my wife and kids. I ...

I made out with my brother in law! We both knew it was wrong..so how do we cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - i know this isn't exactly a question, but i just needed to write this or tell someone! i was out last night and saw my brother in law! we made out, but both knew how wrong it was, i just feel awkward about the next time i have to see him....

My son's father came back in our lives and now he's dumped me again! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i was in a 3yr relationship from 13 to 16 with Aaron i fell pregnant and he left me when i was 4 half months pregnant it destroyed but i had our beautiful son i moved on and met lee and i was with for 3yrs until 2 weeks ago i ended things he took on ...

My brother is 27--and he still acts like a bratty kid! What should I do?

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26 October 2006 (F) - I have a 27-year-old brother who refuses to grow up. I understand that there is a part of every person that will not grow up all the way, but he acts like a very immature bratty little kid, and it drives me crazy! I have tried to tell him that, but ...

My parents are mean--has anyone else had the same experiences with their parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was wondering if any of your readers known some very nice people who have very mean parents? Because I have, and I was wondering if anyone else has too?...

His Mother keeps his old wedding pics up on her wall! This has upset me..what do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - hi im the one who thinks my boyfriend is ashamed of our relationship . i forgot to tell you about his mum decorating their house . when she decorated their house i thought when it was finished she wudnt hang up his wedding picture again but she did ...

Who comes first? The spouse or the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Traditionally, I have always believed that in a relationship where children are involved; be it children from outside the relationship or not, your partner/ spouse comes first and the child second to the unity of the “adult” relationship further, ...

Mt gf hates my Mom-I can't even mention her! Why should I have to tread lightly about my family??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - my girlfriend and i are having problems understanding each other. she hates my mum and now i can't mention her because otherwise she goes wierd on me and gets in a mood. also, i feel that i have to tread carefully so's not to annoy her but when i'm ...

I'm in love with a girl I am related to! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - dear cupid i seem to be in love with a girl who i am related to (cuzzin through grandparents), before i used to have feeling for her but they usually go away after a day or two, but now i seem to be thinking about her non stop, and i would like...

His mom's death is making my boyfriend seem distant! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years old and he has 5 siblings but have to take care of 2 younger ones after his mother’s death 5 months ago who died tragically. I understand it is a great loss to get over I had lost my father too so I know how it feels like ...

My brother won't stop making fun of me...how can I make him stop???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6633 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I am 20 years old, and I have a 36-year-old brother who really likes to pick on me and make fun of me, especially when he thinks that I can't hear him, and I really can, even if I ask him to stop. In fact, my other two brothers can't stand him ...

Doe anyone here find it hard to get along with their Mother-in- law?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi just a quick question, does anyone here find it hard to get on with their mother-in-law/mother-in-law to be? Me and my fiance have been together for almost a year and even now I find it hard to get on with his mother. She drives me mad! S...

My daughters boyfriend now thinks we hate him when he couldn't be more wrong!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - My daughter has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a year. My husband and I love him. Recently they had a bump in their relationship, but seemed to have gotten over it. While my daughter was hurting, I was there to listen to her, trying to be ...

I got roses from my internet guy...now my mum and her partner are paranoid...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - well this morning i got sent a dozen red roses. I was really happy but now im not cause my mum and her partner are going crazy they didnt like how i had been sent them. But the guy who sent them is a really nice guy (although i met him on t...

With a new baby and back to work fulltime...my partner is doing nothing to help! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I have recently returned to work after having a baby, I was pleased to get back to work and am lucky to have a wonderful childminder. However I have now found that I am a fulltime worker and housewife, my partner does nothing to help me and it is ...

Should i divorce and hurt my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I am married man for 18 years, i have a son of 13 ,the problem is i lost all intrest in my wife, over several years i have cheated before, just typical one night stands, now i have met a woman i work with , been sexually involved with her for ...

Why is she acting like we aren't together? Any advice appreciated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I'm not sure what to do in my situation. I have been with my girlfriend of a year and 10 months and we used to live together up until last saturday. she was driving to work and got pulled over for driving with no license and no insurance she ...

My brother has this 'tickling' thing going on and I'm not sure how to deal with it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - Hya, i really hope that you can put my mind at ease about something i found out this evening that's got me very confused. My brother loves teasing and tormenting me, he's forever playing jokes on me and ever since our teens-we're both in our 20's ...

I found the strength to stand up to my Mother...thank you for all of your advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - This is a huge thank you to all of the aunts who helped me get back control of my life from my mother. I wanted to tell you all that I took your advice and I'm doing great. I took the advice of giving my mom one last chance. Long story short...

Should I eventually tell my kids I was raped as a teen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - I was raped at the age of 14, my husband knows about this, and is very supportive of it, should i tell my children, when they are old enough?...

My sister is addicted to ice meth and we don't know what to do to help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I'm not sure if this is the place to ask, but maybe you can direct me. I have a 33 year old sister who is addicted to ice meth and has has 2 children. Children Protective Services will not help unless the children are being physically abused. We've ...

Bf of six has parents who won't accept me! He refuses to tell them we are dating. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years, and his parents dont accept me because I come from latin america, and we are now living together and he refuses to tell his parents. I feel very bad cause I feel he doesnt want to stand up for me? when ...

My partners son and his mate went out on a night out with me and my mates....he reports everything back to his mum!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - my parners son went out with me and my mates and his mate and one of his mates kept trying it on i no my partners lad tells his mum everything ,plus my friend got off with my parners lad what do you think his mum will say ....

Does my boyfriend's brother have a "crush" on me or am I paranoid? How do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Does my boyfriend's brother have a "crush" on me or am I paranoid? Ok, Here's some background: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 years now- and he is my first real love. There are definate issues in the relationship, ones that I have been...

My son got a case of cold feet after being with her 10 years now she is due to re-marry and I want to wish her the best!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - my son called off his wedding 15months ago after being with his girlfriend for 10 years. A case of cold feet I think. He realised soon afterwards that he had made a mistake but she wouldn't have him back and she is now getting married to someone ...

Does this mean that I am related to the guy I've fallen for ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I don't know what to do, I think I may be related to this guy that I've fallen for. So if you can understand this, please tell me if we're related or not. He is my: Dad's uncle's wife's sister's son. So, my Dad has an uncle named "...

Im really happy with my first BF of 8 months, but My mum keeps telling me to get out and date more!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hi. I've been dating my bf for about 8 months now and things between us are great. We love each other and we're happy together. However, my parents, my mother in particular, is always saying that i should get out there and date more to see what ...

My boyfriends dad keeps flirting with me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Im a 19 year old girl, and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, basically the problem is that his father(53) flirts with me, well i think he does. The only problem is that my boyfriend always suggests that im the one leading his dad on and ...

Am I wrong to snoop on my daughter's relationships? (via myspace etc!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I am a "way too overinvolved" mom as my 17 year old daughter puts it. But I need input from other parents as to my "over involvement". She has been "married", as she puts it, for the last 2 years, pretty much since she started dating, with 2 ...

How can I get the approval of my parents and make them proud of me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - No matter how much i try, i cannot win approval of my parents, especially my father and this makes me depressed and i feel to be worthless and guilty. My father had huge ambitions from me which i find difficult to fulfil. Please advice....

I feel stressed around anyone of power in my family and its making me uncomfortable!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - When i am around members of my family especially my father, brother or some cousins, i feel immensely stressed. I feel they are all obsessed with power, wealth and grandiosity and give very little importance to emotions. I feel they try to own me or ...

I have raised my grandaughter for them and now they won't to ruin everything I've done just because it suits them!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - my son has a resident order on his daughter he since found a new g/friend with 5 children who are under supervision from social services he left to live with her and left his daughter with me she is 2 1/2 i have looked after her sinc eshe was 8mths ...

My friends ex keeps asking me out but I'm worried she ain't really over him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - hey, my best friend dated a guy, they were going out for a year, but they broke up. She's pretty upset about it, but she told me she got over it. The problem is, after about a month, the guy asked me out. I secretly had a crush on him when they...

Do you think he will leave his family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - I have been married for 16 years and have a 14 year old son, I have been friends with a man from work on and off for 10 years, lunch now and then and friendly chats nothing more than that, although I have been attracted to him since the first day we ...

Is he being distant because of his religion? I don't understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - hi, ive been with my bf for 6 years and he was my first everything and i was his. we both come from different cultures and he is very religious, which has caused problems but nothing that i am not willing to work out. recently ive been trying to get ...

I don't feel accepted by his family. How can I get him to become my fiance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for two years. we are older and both widow and widowers. my family is fine with it because they want their mother to be happy. his family is another story. one of his two children{both of them are married} has ...