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Faded love: Help and advice

Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...

I want a legal marriage, but he's being distant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hi please i need a help.ive been with my guy for almost 4yrs.we even have a boy of 2yrs.just recently he talked about marrying me the traditional way which i refused.i wanted the legal type so that i will be secured.but he also refused.since then he ...

Break his heart when we've been through so much or try to get past these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and sometimes I feel so in love with him and other times I just can't stand him. Now I just don't feel attracted to him. He loves me to the moon and back and he'd never betray me but I just don't know what ...

What are signs he's losing interest in you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

27 September 2011 (?) - What are some of the biggest signs he is losing interest in you? Also what out of these are signs? If before he always wanted you to wear lingerie and now you do and he just ignores you or looks annoyed? If you say you want to get more linger...

Everybody loves my husband except me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. My husband of 16 years is perfect by everybody else's standards. He is well liked by my family and friends, a good husband, a good father and best friend. I know that logically he is a good choice for me. He has stood by me during goo...

She does not know why. What can we do for her to feel better and possibly restore her love for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - I need help it's with my gf. we have been currently been together for 2 years and 2 months recently she has told me she has had a very bad feeling and she is losing her love for me. I don't know why she is like this, and she doesn't have a clue ...

Love triangles. I keep trying to do the 'right' thing but it keeps hurting more and more. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - First it's important to know that I have never had this occur before, never thought it even slightly possible, and hope it never happens again. I'm 35 and 3 years ago I moved workplaces. I was assigned a mentor, B, who was great in showing me the ...

Is it likely a new Bf may lose interest after learning about the STD? I want to break up with my bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but our relationship seems hopeless, and I think I probably should end it. This seems like an odd reason to hesitate, but I am worried that I will have trouble finding someone new because I was recently diagnosed as being HPV ...

So are his little postings on facebook about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, So I just wanted to ask if these are all coincidences or not. A guy and I got into a misunderstanding and based on 1)he thought I was into his friend at the same time and 2)he was really a party boy all his life and I don't think he had mu...

How do I stop becoming bitter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - After you have been burned by someone, how do you stop from becoming bitter and cynical about love? I still feel my heart becoming harder. And anger and frustration dampening my hope and enthusiasm so that I do not believe in love anymore. What...

Too many arguments. is there a way I can get over him without ending the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - im worried my boyfriend and I are not going to work out. We argue every single day about stupid things. Im deeply in love with him , and what hurts the most is that this relationship was unexpected. He claims that he's in love with me , and that...

Is she out of love? taking me for granted? it was my birthday 2 weeks ago and she did not plan anything for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - For the past couple months I feel that my girl and I are drifting apart. I feel that I am always trying to hug her or kiss her and it's like she doesn't want it. We have been together only for 2 years now and we barely make love and she comp...

I really don't love him. I need to get over him. He's moved on. I have not. How do I stop wanting to stalk him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - So recently i ended my relationship with this guy..it was mainly because i didnt get really good grades that i wanted and i totally blame the guy for it..because he always thought i could carry on with my studies and would do great blah blah..but i ...

He just enjoys my treatment of him without reciprocating! I feel hurt and miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - are me and my bf falling out?im 19 he is 21 ..just began working..ever since he's started working in a different city(since4 months) he has been busy with work ..he used to call and text a lot telling me he misses me more than his parents and ...

Is my relationship destined for doom, or can it be fixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - Well, I have been with my husband for 5 years, we have 2 amazing kids. In the past, I believe he has cheated on me several times, I could never get over it then though he hadn't admitted to it. I know in my heart he has, I had reliable sources. Any...

The love of my life has been online cheating. I've never felt sadness like this before. Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - Last night my heart was broken. I found out the girl that I planned to marry and live happily ever after with, has fallen for some online with someone else and spends hours each day flirting with and getting emotionally close with him. I'm in shoc...

What should I do? Broke up 6 months ago. I don't want to just be his friend. I love him too much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - What should I do? i don't think he wants me anymore:( can't stop crying:(? My ex bf invited me to his house last week, he cooked, we laid in bed (no sex) we kissed and talked lots. He held my hand when we were walking. He said he broke up with me...

Should I tell him exactly what I think? Or just completely ignore him! Hes hurt me so much! Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Im after some good honest opinions as im going out of my mind with frustration. I was seeing this guy for 9 months but he treats me like crap. No matter what he does though i still wanna be with him. Im in love with him. He always blows hot and cold ...

How is it that she's been able to cut me and my family out of her life so completely? I'm numb and she's going out and having dinner with friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - 6 weeks ago my girlfriend left to have a break and then come back because she said she missed me and didn't want to cry anymore two weeks later she has moved out completely again. we spoke a bit via txt and she said she never meant to hurt me and ...

Should I move on? am I being played? He's re-opened his dating profile. What could possibly be going on in his head?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so upset and confused. I really appreciate any and all advice that you guys offer me. This might be a bit long, but I will really appreciate it if you stick in there and help me out. Thanks ahead of time. I've been dating my b...

Should I stay with my boyfriend or go after the other guy who has a 6 month old baby and a babymama?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, our relationship is pretty good, I love him very much. The thing is about a year ago I hooked up with some guy I used to work with, we decided to stays friends but with time we grew apart. ...

Why am I still pining for my army lover though he treats me like dirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Ive been involved with a guy for 9 months and Im going out of my mind with frustration. To say I fell for him hook, line and sinker would be an understatement.I was totally and utterly in love with him. However, we couldnt properly be together ...

How good is good enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together for about 3 and a half years in total, although the beginning was very on and ,and we live together. Recently I have been feeling very unsure about the relationship. I have discussed...

She 'needs some space to regroup'?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - A little background, we're both 27, have been officially together for the past 6 months. Everything was going very well, having serious talks about moving in with each other and eventually letting each other know that we found exactly who we were ...

How many men still find their wife attractive as she ages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I hear a lot about men desiring younger women, and of wives being heart broken over their husbands leaving them for a younger woman. So i'm curious, how many men still find their wife attractive as she ages? and after kids? do you still desire her...

Idealistic Love VS Realistic Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Idealistic love is attraction, intimacy, perfection. Realistic love is attraction AND attachment, intimacy AND commitment and perfection found in imperfection. Everyone wants to be in idealistic love. Fact: It only happens in fantasies, movie...

Did he ever care? How can I move on from all this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Three years ago my now ex and I broke up. we were from different cultures and religions and he decided that his family would disown him and things could not go further after three and a half years and the best part of our younger days together. Fo...

What went wrong here? How did things change so suddenly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hello to anyone who reads this. I have heard this is a good site for advice so here goes... Met someone and hit off big time. Always recieving texts and asking to meet them. Saw each other everyday and spent most nights at their house. Met f...

Love. There’s no feeling like it in the world.

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17 September 2011 (M) - Love. There’s no feeling like it in the world. When you’re into a girl, everything in your life seems different. Colors seem more vivid. Everything you do has a different purpose. Life seems more worth living. It’s not surprising that S...

Am I right to be angry at my parents' relationship with my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - I split with my ex of 9 years 16 months ago. It was, as far as it can be, amicable and fortunately there were no other people involved, nor did we have kids. My ex bought me out of our house and I have my own flat and she has, just last week, sold ...

I love him and couldn't imagine being with someone else but I just don't know if I can live with him anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Hi I'm having a problem of rather or not I should move back home or stay living together with my boyfriend. We have been together for years and this is the first place we have ever lived other than home and we have lived almost a year. I love him ...

Am I played out and he is looking for someone new?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

11 September 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this married man for over 8yrs. His wife left him about 3yrs ago. Many would think thats what he wanted and he wuld want to start a life with me, the women he said he loved and it appeared he couldnt beapart from whil he was with ...

I love her . Loved helping her. But she hurts me so much. Does this sound like a relationship with a future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Hi, So Me (17) and my Gf (14) have been going out for 6 months, I have always done everything I could for her, Bought her games to play when her mum was drunk, Spent weekends out with her. Did everything I could for her. I even managed to get her ...

He will not face me. Why can't some men face you when they break up with you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I need some help. I was dating my BF for 6 months. He just broke up with me via email. Never had one single conversation about anything not working. Tells me I'm wonderful, amazing and he thinks we're just supposed to be friends... but won't talk to ...

Should I have done things differently? Did I deal with this girl the wrong way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

9 September 2011 (M) - Ok, so I met my now ex-girlfriend this past December, and to tell you the truth, she was not that bad at first. However, in January she developed a stomach ulcer due to stress in college academics, which I don't get because they were easy ...

He broke up with me. I don't want to 'get over him' - I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me on August 24th at 3:30 a.m. I miss him so much... At first he said he would come back soon that he just needed sometime to get his act together... Then he was married to this girl on facebook so i asked him if they were ...

I'm questioning my feelings for my BF but I don't know what to do because he's so deeply in love with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - So, I've known my boyfriend for 5 years now. He's been my best friend for a year and we got together almost 6 months ago. It was all good for about 3 months, then I started questioning my feelings (partly because of the sex - I've never came and...

How can I make my co-worker interested in me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - What should I do about him? is he mad at me? i really like him:(? There's this guy at my workplace. He stares at me when am not looking. He was really nice and friendly with me. So I gave him my number and he even rang me a few times when...

I think my boyfriend is falling out of love with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Im feeling rather worried :( Im afraid my boyfriend may be having second thoughts about me, but doesnt want to admit it or hurt me. He was the one who came to me and made the effort to ask me out, he was so sweet at first, he always used to put ...

My problem is I need help getting over my boss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I was dating a married man for 1 year. He is my boss. He said that he could no longer continue this affair because it was too stressful. He pursued me for seven years and I finally gave in to friendship then lovers. We have stop this affair and ...

We are supposed to be getting married in 2 months time but he has already stopped being affectionate. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 7 years and we have 5 year old twins together. He is such an amazing dad, loving, nurturing and helps with cooking and cleaning. The sad part is, we are getting married in 2 months but this last year he has...

I've got myself into this mess. I slept with my ex. How do I get over this and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Okay, so I now deserve the stupidest person in the world award. I split up with my ex quite a few months ago. I didn't communicate with him at all after that. I've invested so much time in getting over him (it was my decision to break up, we were...

These past few days he's been different. mean to me. How does anyone cope when a boy friend gets like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am pretty upset now and don't know how anyone deals/copes with it. Anyways my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We had our ups and downs, never broke up EVER. If we did it lasted like 2 days. These pas...

I'm newly single. Should I wait in case my ex and I can get back together? Or go with this new girl now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in love with this girl for five years, and now she has left me saying she can no longer take the fights we generally have. And so i let her go thinking she might really be facing real trouble. And i wasn't even thinking of anyt...

Fiance has no self esteem and is anorexic, now she's pushing me away. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - my fiance is very beautiful and a wonderful person however she has no self esteem and is anorexic. a couple months back she was doing great with her eating but not so good with her mood. against my wishes and judgement her psychologist and docter ...

After 8 months, he says he feels he loves me more as a special friend than a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - So i've been going out with my bf for 8 months, and recently he told me that he didn't feel like that he loves me as a gf anymore.. and he said like, right now he still loves me but he feels like i'm more of a really special friend than a gf.. B...

What are my options for the future, in view of how he speaks to me and lies to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have been trying for the past 2 years to cope with the knowledge that my husband had been deceiving me for 5 years by joining internet dating sites and cheating on me. My dilemma this time is the other night he was telling me that we dont tak...

I do care about her but I feel she is being somewhat silly if she thinks our relationship can sustain without intimacy and sex. Am I being selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - I am a 33 year old, frustrated male and I am really hoping for some impartial advice. I have been with my girlfriend for just over eighteen months. We currently live apart but I know that she is eager for me to move in with her and her little g...

Cheating for 7years and a child to another woman!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - my husband has been having an affair for 7 years with his female college friend and a male college friend of his told me that she admited to her close friend that her 6 year old gaughter is my husbands. he has changed alot and swears at me every day ...

Too soon to like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - I met this girl on holiday in Spain and i only knew her for a week and a bit, but i really like her, is it weird that i can like someone after such little time?...