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writes:I have been in love with this girl for five years, and now she has left me saying she can no longer take the fights we generally have. And so i let her go thinking she might really be facing real trouble.And i wasn't even thinking of anything, and all of a sudden, a new group of interns (all girls)join us at work. my eyes get hold of the most gorgeous girl. She is without doubt the most beautiful girl at work, and just casually, we both happened to become friends very quickly.Now I think i'm having crush on her as whenever she comes online to chat, my heart begins to beat more. I keep going through our chat logs. I don't know for sure if she's even interested, but I know one thing for sure, I'm falling for her.Now I really don't wish to hurry into anything. I have just become single again and I thought I might stay single for a pretty long time. And from nowhere, this angelic person appears who's willingly befriended me and wishes to spend a good amount of time (totally unofficial) outside work with me.Should I wait a while? Or should I just go ahead with my instincts? I do really love my girl (who I just broke up with), but she just won't listen. And I feel here, this new girl demands attention.Please help me with this dilemma!
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reader, popstar +, writes (10 September 2011):
popstar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot. I've another problem, related to this new girl. I will post it up soon.About my ex, i tried contacting still, she wouldn't reply. I don't want to cheat. We were in love for five years, I will always respect the relation. But she just doesn't want that.Thanks a lot for your replies. Happy to have posted here.:)
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (5 September 2011):
 Hi,
Sorry about your recent break up. I know that you were together for 5 years and that's a long time. Honestly, if you already have feelings for a new girl, your heart beats fast, I guess you are not in love with your ex-girlfriend anymore. I think is more attachment than love. Only time will tell for sure. If you like this new girl do whatever you have to do, because if you don't you will always wonder & have this girl in the back of your mind. Rather, you will get back with your ex or not. Why do you think people cheat? I am accusing you of cheating, but if you have feelings for this new girl the love you feel for your ex is no longer strong.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): Go for it...be friends for a while and see what happens. Life is too short
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