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writes:For the past couple months I feel that my girl and I are drifting apart. I feel that I am always trying to hug her or kiss her and it's like she doesn't want it. We have been together only for 2 years now and we barely make love and she complains all the time about it maybe we do it once a week . It's my fault because I am experencing a lot of pain in my back and now I have pain in my hand and wrist do to tendinitis. I really wish things were better but I don't see it going that way. Another example it was my birthday 2 weeks ago and she did not plan anything for me and she did not even give me a card or anything to this day???any advice would be great, thankyou! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (26 September 2011):
 It's hard to see if you have two problems here.... but, frankly, it appears that there may be just one...You say that you and she do not have an active sexual part of your relationship because of your tendonitis. (Aside: Are you seeking any treatment for this????)... She complains to you.... Then, she fails to acknowledge your birthday.... It "sounds" like she IS less than excited about the "relationship" that you have... and she is exhibiting her feelings by getting more distant from you... The "birthday thing" might otherwise just be "fluff"... but, armed with your other explanation, I think this romance has run its course, and you can expect the end any time.... triggered by whichever one of you gets unbearably frustrated, first....Good luck....
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