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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me on August 24th at 3:30 a.m. I miss him so much... At first he said he would come back soon that he just needed sometime to get his act together... Then he was married to this girl on facebook so i asked him if they were really dating he said no but he lied to me while we were dating too so i wasnt sure if he was lying or not... So i asked her she said that it was none of my business and ended up telling him and he freaked out on me and said that now hes not gonna give me a second chance but he still says that he loves me and cares about me and misses me... What should i do to get him back? and if your just gonna tell me to move on then don't answer at all please because i am so tired of people telling me to just move on that i will find someone better so if your gonna say that then just please dont answer at all... What should i do to get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2011): Apologize to him for sneaking around contacting his current gf. and then ask him to get back together with you.
thing is, he's the one who broke up with you. there's a reason for that. Why should he want to get back with you if it's just gonna be the same thing as the last time that made him want to break up? so you need to tell him that if he will give you another chance, things will be different this time, and you have to mean it.
but if he broke up with you because he found someone new that he preferred, then I'm afraid you can't do anything to get him back because he just wants someone different that's all. Everyone is entitled to have their preferences including for dating partners.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (8 September 2011):
 if he loves, cares about and misses you, why did he break up with you? and are the reasons still present? of course you don't feel ready to get over him, you have only been broken up for a couple of weeks, it takes time to get over someone, and it doesn't help when you are still looking at his facebook page and seeing him marrying another girl on there.
if he still has feelings for you ask him why he won't take you back. whatever it is that he doesn't like about you, maybe you can change or maybe you can't or wouldn't want to.
the best thing you can do is talk to him, don't do any silly tricks like dating his friends to make him jealous etc, just be nice to him, look at your behaviour and see if there are things you could improve.
but if this guy is telling you he doesn't want to give you another chance then sorry, but you are gonna have to accept it. i know you miss him but when you are ready you WILL be able to get over him, even though you feel like you never will at the moment
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