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writes:What should I do about him? is he mad at me? i really like him:(?There's this guy at my workplace. He stares at me when am not looking. He was really nice and friendly with me.So I gave him my number and he even rang me a few times when he was on holiday abroad. So I thought he liked me. He asked me to the movies. But I didn't show and he rang me but I didn't return his call and he hasn't rang me since.He's not chatty with me at work anymore. Just hi and bye now. I miss talking to him. His ex broke up with him18months ago and I think he's still hurt from their break up.Is he just not that into me? I really like this guy and am leaving work this week. (Am a temp) What should I do? I really like him.. I think he's insecure.Thanks..x
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (6 September 2011):
 I'm surprised you even need to ask this question.
You stood the man up without so much as an explanation or an apology. Then ignored him when he rang you and you're wondering what's wrong with HIM?
His past relationship has nothing to with it. Whether or not he is insecure is irrelevant. The reason he is distant with you is because you showed just how much you liked by your extremely rude treatment of him.
I doubt you have a chance with him now, but you can at least apologize to him for how you acted. That would be the decent and mature thing to do. If you're lucky he might give you a second chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): I would be mad at you too. That is incredibly rude. You messed him around then wonder why he doesn`t talk to you anymore? If you actually like him, treat him like it. Dont leave him standing alone at the movie theaters and then ignore him and expect him to be flowers and kittens about it.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (5 September 2011):
 why did you not show up and then ignore his call? i am not surprised he has lost interest in you and you say he is insecure after his last relationship break up? what you did will have made him feel even worse. you could try talking to him about what happened, explain to him your reason for not showing and not contacting him and say your sorry and ask him out again, it could work, maybe he feels like a fool and does not want to make the first move, so if you still like him, you should do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): How come you didn't go to the movies with him? And return his call after he phoned you? Maybe that's why he's not chatty with you in work anymore.
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