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51-59,
anonymous
writes:my husband has been having an affair for 7 years with his female college friend and a male college friend of his told me that she admited to her close friend that her 6 year old gaughter is my husbands. he has changed alot and swears at me every day in front of my son and lies to me every day. i asked him to get her to work somewhere else but he said he cant he is her boss and everyday and night they are together everywhere and all the love love is in the office i am so upset i had no idia all these years what was going on behind my back please advice me what to do
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (3 September 2011):
I agree 100%- start gathering all the information you need to go after ever DIME he has. Bank Account numbers, social security numbers, copies of tax filings, his paycheck stubs... everything. Start skimming cash and saving it so he doesn't know.
Get yourself a good attorney, get things in order and have him served divorce papers.
Then he'll cuss... just not at you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): Double ditto what CaringGuy said - you and your son deserve better and why stay with a cheating, swearing, sleazebag liar anyway? He for sure isn't a good role model for your son, is he?? And he obviously doesn't love you or value your son, so really, you have no reason to stay with him. Take his money and everything else you can and start a new and better life somewhere else without him in it. Good luck to you and your son, you'll find that you'll both be a lot happier and less stressed without him around!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 September 2011):
 Ditto... what CaringGuy said....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 September 2011):
This man has had an affair for 7 years, he's had another child with that woman who is 6, and he has lied in front of your son. He won't even move departments himself, let alone send her elsewhere. He's clearly still got to see her.
I would take this man for every penny he has. He does't love you, and he is absolutely no role model if he stands in front of your son and lies so much.
Get a lawyer, get everything you can, find happiness elsewhere in your life where you and your son won't be made a mockery of.
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