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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...

Our fairytale relationship has lost its spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years now. Since 10th grade, and back then, he was so romantic and wanted nothing more than for me to be his girlfriend. I feel like the start of our relationship, and how we both had crushes on ...

Has he fallen out of love with me? Is he just putting up with this because its easier than breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend over 6 years now, hes 28 im 24 we have lived together for a year. He has become distant, doesnt make much effort these days, i also found a text on his phone saying to his friend 'Any excuse to get away from the missus ...

We used to be in love but now its all going downhill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Alright, so I'm having soo many problems with my boyfriend right now. I'm bored of our sex and he can't really give me an orgasm anymore. I asked him if we could try a threesome and he got really really pissed. He asked who I'd choose and I told him ...

He will not share his feelings with me any more. Does he really still care about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - hi i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and i believe he stopped caring about me and i dont know how to make him understand how hurt i am and i truely love him with all my heart. i put up everything of me into this relationship .... but the thing is im a...

How can I play hard to get with my steady boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Every guy and girl says they 'don't want to play games' but I've been learning more and more that everything is a game, ESPECIALLY relationships, and the moment you stop playing - you lose. Anyway, how do I do it successfully? Play hard to get...

My boyfriend is too comfortable in our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I feel that my boyfriend is less interested in me or gone off me because he barely texts me anymore when we cant see each other and if send him one he takes forever to reply. In the past he used to text back immediately. we see each other quite ...

Three questions for men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Three Questions to guys : 1.)Do men go out their way to make an ex/ or current girlfriend jealous? And if so, how? 2.)Why would a man in a 3 year relationship make an online Dating profile? 3.)What are the signs that a man is no longer ...

He never calls, Accuses me of things. should I break-up with him for good or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi! i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months its a long distance relationship. At first things were ok,he would call every day and now our relationship is on and off. i ended up breaking up with him for a week and we got back together, since we...

Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....

I've lost interest in my boyfriend. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - hi.... i am in a relationship with a boy since 4 years.. at the starting years of my relationship i was oh so lucky but now i feel bored with him and lost all my interest in him... i went out with him 3 times and everytime we end up getting physical ...

He's in jail for life, and he's telling me to cut contact. How can I deal with my strong feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a man who is incarcerated. I met him through a pen pal service which asks for people on the outside, like myself to write to prisoners. To be on the safe side, I picked a man who was doing life without the possibility of p...

Can a man grow a backbone? Or should I move on? He believes others over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - So I had met this guy a few times, and thought he was cute, so I asked my girlfriend about him and she said he was great, that they were just friends and so she gave him my number. So we get together, and right away, I could tell we are really hitt...

I saw my ex girlfriend again after 4 years... and all the old feelings came back to me!

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25 August 2011 (M) - I saw my ex girlfriend today for the first time in 4 years. The moment i saw her all those feeling came running back to me..we werent together for very long , only round 8 months but we were very close. i cant stop thinking about her!! the big prob...

We are very close. Yet on FB he claims to love another. Am I just his temp fix?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and I find myself in the worse position ever. I've been with one guy since I was 14 we break up but still see eachother regularly, speak everyday and sleep over each others houses every week. Where I've known him since I was so young I feel...

Why can't he stop seeing this woman? He still lives with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - my husband told me he is having an affair and that he had to tell me. we are still living in the same house we are still making love from time to he says he dont want to have to choose he tell me thing that hurt me so much he say i can stay here...

I want to love him, but its just not happening

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Ok, i have been seeing this guy Dave for a year now. He is good looking , hard working and really kind to me and my two children from a previous relationship. The problem is no matter how hard i try i just dont get proper feelings for him. I thou...

Our marriage is dying.. but my husband doesn't realise it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - I have been married to my highschool sweatheart for 8 years now, but we have been together since we were both 15. He's now 30 and I'm 29. We just had a daughter last year. My husband is a wonderful guy, he's courteous, sweet, do it yourself'er will ...

I miss him. We just broke up. What do I do to get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up. It has been three years. I do not know how to cope or deal with this,how is he moving on so fast? He is already talking to other girls,dating them. I know this because of Facebook. I need help,my identity feels stri...

I want to send my ex an e-mail, but would that be sending off the wrong message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 August 2011 (?) - What kind of message would I send if I contacted my ex two months after he broke up with me? We hadn't got back together probably when he called it off two months ago - we were going to meet and discuss things (7 months after our proper split). I ...

Married for 8 years, he is no longer interested in anything but work and money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 8 years. When we first got together, we had sex all the time. After about a year it started dwindling away slowly and now we might have sex 2 times a year. When I ask him what is wrong, he says he has no ...

I feel betrayed by this hypocrite

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - My former fiance and I have not spoken in 3 months. We were together for 3 years. I am so confused and sad about how he dropped me for someone new as if our relationship never happened. I have only called twice and texted once. He does not ...

How can I cope after this break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

21 August 2011 (M) - i was with my ex girlfriend for two and a half years i got with her when she was 17 and i was 21. we spent the best time together and after 6 months or so i ended up moving in with her family, we became so close and did so much together, holidays ...

I don't love him. Should I leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - You shouldn't leave the one you love for the one you like. but what if i don't LOVE him? Overtime my feelings towards my boyfriend of 5 months have changed. I never really found him physically attractive, and now since we are back at school, i don...

My girlfriend broke up with me and won't give me the chance to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - my girlfriend just broke up with me over a question that happened a while ago. i posted a question a few months ago and didnt take the peoples advice and now she broke up. i could not trust her so she broke up. She said she still loves me and had to ...

My feelings have changed and sometimes I don't even want to be around him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - So...this is a tough one. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have a great relationship, minus a few ups and downs that everyone is sure to go through. Recently my feelings towards him have changed. At times things are complete...

My depressed bf told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore...and I'm 15-weeks pregnant with his baby!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore, he's so depressed ..which is very scary because I'm 15 weeks preg. But idk what to do...we both still live with our parents but he doesn't work cuz he has back problems on account ...

Why am I falling out of love with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - I used to be so in love even obsessed with her. We have been together for 6 or 7 years ever since high school. We don't kiss or touch as much anymore and hardly ever have sex anymore, romance is fleeting I really love her but don't know what to do. ...

Should I forgive him after I wrote him this?......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - "Its Saturday, Again you ignore my calls. Its the same thing you do every Saturday. Last time it was because you forgot your phone, the other two saturdays was because of family problems. Every Saturday theres a new excuse, every saturday night when ...

For a year and a half he told me he loved me and begged me to move in. Now's he's dumped me. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - How do you get over someone you love? It just seems so impossible at this point. I've been in a long distance relationship on and off for about a year and a half! I've never met him in person.(And were only 5 hours away from each other. I know ...

What can I do? Sometimes I think he likes me, sometimes I think he doesnt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - Hi all, I have this crush on a guy and starting from last year, we started being in the same class. We dont talk a lot, but sometimes he would initiate a convo with me on msn, sometimes about school work and other stuffs. I am really shy and i do...

I'm hurting. How can I understand why she broke up with me? And how can I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

12 August 2011 (M) - It has been a month since my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me and i am wondering how long will it take to get over her and not want to always contact her just to see how she is. I know if i contact her and she is extremely happy it will...

My boyfriend has turned mean but I gave up my friends so he is all I've got

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

9 August 2011 (F) - Okay, so my boyfriend of a year and a half is just really mean lately, but here's the story. Everything was so good the first year we started seeing each other, He's the only person I've trusted 100%, and now I'm just hearing that he supposedly ...

I haven't the guts to leave my partner but I'm interested in another guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

9 August 2011 (F) - I'm with my partner 8 years,its been very rocky at times,he's cheated and lied over the years and its been very volatile,I love him and care for him,but I'm nor in love with or really have sex anymore,over the past 7 weeks I've been chatting to an ...

My ex won't respond to my calls or meet up with me. I need to tell him... I'm pregnant

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I have a crazy situation. If you read my back questions. I met a guy and we were crazy for each other. Spent all I time together and everything. I am still in love with him. One day he decided he needed some alone time. So he asked me said he wasn't ...

Is a Divorce the only way to fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I cant help but feel that a divorce is the only way to fix our relationship. My wife and i have been married for almost 4 years now and things are starting to get all messed up. we have always had little fights that seemed big but we always w...

Good marriage, but I want more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

6 August 2011 (M) - Hi, I want to vent and maybe get some perspective from Aunts here. I read the site often. I'm an average guy, been married for almost 15 years and together for about 20 years with my wife. We have many children and most of the time we have a g...

How? He blows me off. I just need help in getting over him and moving on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

5 August 2011 (F) - For all of my teenage years and right up to now this guy and I have been doing this thing where we see each other for a while, then he just blows me off. we will have set plans and i will not hear from him for a couple months, then he will star...

What does it mean for a relationship to 'move forward'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

4 August 2011 (M) - Yo so I got a question. My girl broke up with me last week because she says our relationship wasnt movin forward. I asked what that meant, I asked if it meant she wanted me to propose marriage. She said no, she didnt mean that, it was just that the ...

Is the lack of sex the reason why I no longer have feelings for my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

4 August 2011 (F) - am a married lady been married for the past 20 yrs my problem is I no longer have feelings for my caring husband. my problem is that for the past 3 yrs we have no sex, I tried to ask him but he does not give me any answers. can this really be the ...

Could this technique help people to keep that 'honeymoon' feeling forever?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, i've read loads of great advice on here about the 'honeymoon phase' of relationships, and how this fades in time in all relationships, and it leaves me wondering why we stay in long term relationships then? The honeymoon phase is great ...

Lonely in love.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - hi all. ive been with my partner for 14 years on and off and we have 2 children together. i love him to bits and i can't imagine life without him but my biggest fear just lately is that he doesnt love me. we very rarely have sex as hes not ...

We broke up a year ago. Is it time to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

2 August 2011 (F) - Me and my ex split up a year ago after 5 years!I split up wiv him as we were arguing a lot! We stayed in contact an even went away together for a weekend.I said I didn't want a relationship with him, I later found out he took someone else away for ...

I cant ever imagine getting divorced over this, but I am not attracted to my wife! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

2 August 2011 (M) - I don't know who to turn to for advice because this is such a sensitive subject. Over the last couple of years I have been losing attraction to my wife and even finding her repulsive at times. I am not a superficial person but it has been building ...

I'm sick of this situation with his uncle! I even think my love for my boyfriend is fading because of this, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

1 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i are now arguing because of this problem. He lives with his uncle who is an idiot. He is aways taking money from my boyfriend and saying he will give it him back but never does. Its not just that the guy is a bad drinker and very ...

I am so lost it's unreal. IDK what my current bf will think. Should I just tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

1 August 2011 (F) - OK guys i have a problem. So I am currently in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful soldier man. I love him dearly and feel safe with him. He caught me and held me after my ex dumped me and was with me through all the crap my ex pulled after ...

I don't know how to deal with these feelings I've developed for my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

1 August 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do . I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I really love him but the romance has disappeared between us in addition to any sexual chemistry ( on my part) .Recently I've begun to develop feelings for his friend and I don't ...