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writes: What kind of message would I send if I contacted my ex two months after he broke up with me? We hadn't got back together probably when he called it off two months ago - we were going to meet and discuss things (7 months after our proper split). I was angry and felt annoyed as he led me to believe we may get back together, up to the point that he called it off he kept on saying how he missed me and couldn't wait to see me again after so long. I did the whole no contact thing and blocked him etc. Now, though I would like to e mail and just say Hi, but of course that might be inappropriate, I do not want him back or anything, and he lives so far away. what do you guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): I think you're right. Sending an email just to say 'hi' is inappropriate. Don't do it.He wasn't your friend. He was your boyfriend and he broke up with you. The relationship is over. There is no reason to have any contact with him now. He won't be fooled any more than we are about you not wanting him back. And if you really don't want him back (which I doubt) he'll think you're playing games with him.Leave him alone and move on.
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