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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I just broke up. It has been three years. I do not know how to cope or deal with this,how is he moving on so fast? He is already talking to other girls,dating them. I know this because of Facebook. I need help,my identity feels stripped away. I want him back,and I feel like I would do anything to have him back..I feel helpless and pathetic
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): I just recently went thru a break too and I know what you're feeling. But, you have to pull yourself together and let the healing process begin. Do not contact him!
He will think less of you and that you are a stalker. Let him be the one to initiate the comeback. In the meantime focus on the reasons you broke up in the first place and it will make you feel better. His rejection is God's protection! Realize your worth and if he's not worthy of you then forget about him. Someone else will be there waiting in the wings. Give it time and you will see!
He's already started looking for his next fling so what does that tell you? He's not crying over you sweetie!
So dry the tears, strap up your boots and get movin!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): Breakups are one of the toughest thing to go through! And it takes a lot of time! I mean a loooooot! But you will get over it .. Hopefully. But you have to understand girls are far more emotional then guys and when they go through a break up they just want a new girl to hide any sad feelings because it makes them feel less of a man . And if hes young he probably wasnt taking it seriously. Maybe he just wants more experience with girls because he is young . Give him space dont talk to him let him come to you .
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