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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel that my boyfriend is less interested in me or gone off me because he barely texts me anymore when we cant see each other and if send him one he takes forever to reply. In the past he used to text back immediately. we see each other quite allot and we get on well, but its just seems like nothing is exciting anymore because we never go out and i cant talk to him emotionally about anything because being a male he doesn’t understand, he talks to girls allot on face book and through texts, I trust him completely but do tend to bring it up allot as well as moan about him not giving me enough attention, I feel as if I depend on him too much, therefore he is too comfortable and doesn’t feel the need to make an effort with anything anymore, what should i do to make him realise ?
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson +, writes (29 August 2011):
My fiancee was with someone like this, by the end he only ever phoned/texted her to meet up or when he wanted something.
This doesn't sound like a good relationship, he isn't making any sort of effort to be there for you or to make the relationship work.
Since he doesn't seem capable of being there for you and you can't talk to him emotionally (very important in a relationship) I agree with Kyle007 and say that he isn't worth being in a relationship with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): I experienced exactly what your asking and now we are no longer together act now before you end up as we did
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (29 August 2011):
It sounds like his attention is wandering.
Couples have to realize that relationships don't happen automatically. They need to be created by both people all the time. So if he is not creating the relationship anymore, he is not worth your preoccupation with him.
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