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age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I used to be so in love even obsessed with her. We have been together for 6 or 7 years ever since high school. We don't kiss or touch as much anymore and hardly ever have sex anymore, romance is fleeting I really love her but don't know what to do. We don't even sleep in the same bed but that is because we cant I still live in my moms house and my mom doesn't know we are lesbians.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 August 2011):
 I see that gay marriages are becoming common but it still takes more determination than heterosexual marriages. The average family will find it hard to accept a daughter being a sexual minority. A relationship requires growth. Without direction a relationship becomes stagnant. You have to find out if a long term is possible with your girlfriend, and you have to be ready to face possible oppositions from your family members. Until you are financially independent your parents will find more reasons to influence your life decisions. First of all you have to have a strong belief in yourself and your relationship. Falling out of love is not a sign that this relationship should end, but rather, it wakes you up to what you need in order to keep you inspired. It can either go deeper or you part ways.
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