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writes:my girlfriend just broke up with me over a question that happened a while ago. i posted a question a few months ago and didnt take the peoples advice and now she broke up. i could not trust her so she broke up. She said she still loves me and had to cause neither of us were happy. i am going to college soon and she tells me to go ahead and meet other girls and maybe something will happen in the future. I told her no i wanted to be with her. She says she will always loves me but just wants to be happy again. I have sent her so many texts promising i will change and stuff like that but she says shes given me a lot of chances and i havent changed but i really am ready to change im never gonna talk about something that happened that is bothering me again. I am so i love with her and dont ever wanna be with another girl and now were are both extremely upset and i need help what to do now
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2011): You need to move on. As a girl, I'd say she's just not into you anymore. At least not in a way you would like her to.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 August 2011):
I think you're out of luck now. If you asked for advice because things were going wrong, then didn't take that advice, you can't blame her for what she's done, and you can't blame her for not wanting to take you back again.
To be honest, at this stage I think the best thing you can both do is move on from each other. You're about to move away anyway, and if there are that many problems they will simply be too much to overcome the distance of you being away from each other.
Also, it's not good enough to be ready to change - you just have to do it. You can't afford to wait around, keeping the same problems in your own life that might come back later on and cause the same problems with someone else.
You say you didn't take advice before - well you need to take it now. The time has come to move on and change for your own sake, not anyone else's. She's made it clear that she wants to move on for her own sake, and you need to do the same. To do anything else would be to just waste more time.
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