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writes:am a married lady been married for the past 20 yrs my problem is I no longer have feelings for my caring husband. my problem is that for the past 3 yrs we have no sex, I tried to ask him but he does not give me any answers. can this really be the cause not to have any feelings? he is still doing everything else which he is supposed to do loves his children as if there is nothing wrong with us. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): As per my experiences at the same stage, the women is lack of skills to communicate properly with her hasband and she is not paying any attention to her husbadn's needs, ignoring him, humalating him, using unusual language which make the husband nervous, asking useless questions, is suspecious about him, not coming to his room, while the husban touches her she is either running away or hurting the feelings of her husband, not listening to her husband, making fun of his families members, not allowing him to help his mother/father, sister,borther, slefish attitude, etc. are the main cause of their cold relationship.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 It is hard to stay connected to someone who won't talk to, or confide in you. It's also hard if there isn't any intimacy in your married life. Do you think that he is having an affair? Or could he have a medical condition that he is keeping from you? There must be a reason for his not wanting to have sex with you. Keep trying to communicate with him, he may eventually open up to you. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): Hello freind,
I understand your situation and it surely makes it feel the way do as we women do everything for them and in return what we need is a respect n satisfaction of being treated as best feminine in their eyes.how exactly ou feel however you are married for 20 yrs n since 3 yrs there is no sex drive bu in my case i am married for just 6 months and no sex at all, no kisses at all.
I will advice you to try out new things like making out in bathroom or gifting him a 2 day holiday in a romantic resort n make arrangements like candles,flowers n what ever drink he likes or food which is his favourite. You can also arrange all this at home n send your children on vocation for a couple of days.show him old pics remind him of wilder sexy days n nights.Most important maintain yourself well.
I am sure things will work out sooner or later but do no show him or make him realise that u r driving him for sex.. he will fall for it.
Wish u luck :-)
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