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Archived questions from: December, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend went behind my back and told my parents about our future plans. Am I right to be hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

31 December 2018 (M) - Hi everyone I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years, the majority of this has been long distance (10 hour flight). We've been trying to find ways to close the distance and one way is to get married so i can sponsor her. I felt ...

I feel like the laughing stock because I want boundaries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - I'm wondering if this situation is worth breaking up over. Right now we're on the brinks because I'm mad about it. The guy I've been seeing for almost a year now is a hippie, I'm not, though i like to party with hippies sometimes. We had a brief ...

Should I ask an 18 year old out or is she too young for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - I’m a single mum with a toddler and after over two years of being single i decided last week to put myself back out there. I’m bisexual and while on a dating site I started talking to a girl who I like. My problem is that I’m nervous about getting ...

He wont have sex with me and prefers porn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2149 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - We have had a rough relationship. 2 years+. Hes cheated, and always put me in competition. Now we have a baby and he loves him so much, but he cheated on me when i was pregnant. Its been an abusive relationship ever since the 5th month. He ...

I've met a nice guy but my cheating daddy wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - Please help me I am in such a dilemma a few months ago me and my baby daddy split up due to a lot of issues in which one of them was him cheating I am not sure if it was physical but I know for sure girls were calling him and texting him and he was ...

Should I take note of our horoscopes? The Chinese one says we are incompatible!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - This probably seems silly but I have been reading Chinese horoscopes and compatability with my boyfriend and they say we are not suited. It says his soul mate Chinese animal was a horse and his ex wife was one, yet my animal is the least compatible ...

Is it ok to ask for a second date immediately? And when to tell about a chronic illness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

30 December 2018 (M) - Hi all, a quick couple of questions. I went on an date set up from an online site last night. I have been on 2 dates over the last few months and had sworn off it as I didn’t enjoy the process but she contacted me and I thought well why not, let...

Does he like me more than a FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - 2 Months ago, a man and I arranged to "Hook up" after matching on Tinder, things went well. Afterwards, I carried on as usual, assuming It was just a "One night stand". 2 weeks after our "Hook up" He had asked me to become his Friends With ...

Is his reaction to these comments a red flag?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

29 December 2018 (F) - Hey guys! Hope everyone is well :) I recently entered into a new relationship. We've been "dating" for the last 2 months, and official for the last month. We have also already entered the "I Love You" phase. Everything moved very quickly, bu...

He constantly needs reassuring and I am being turned off by it!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

28 December 2018 (F) - Hi so I started seeing a guy about a month ago, he is lovely but lives like 400 miles away! I really fell for him, and him me, but he seems borderline obsessed with me, he got me presents for Xmas very sweet I thought, but he is very insecure and ...

I think this guy is holding back from me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - got into online dating. Had a couple of dates with a fab guy. i could see him as the one. maybe early but theres something so different in a fantastic way we have also taken it slow we chatted for 2 month before meeting. we have both deleted our ...

How can I ask my family to back off from my pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2160 days ago

27 December 2018 (M) - I’ve been dating my gf for 6 months. My family met her for the first time over the holidays and they weren’t very welcoming. When we met she had just found out she was pregnant. She also has a two year daughter. She left her ex because he was chea...

Older man wont leave his girlfriend for me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2141 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - I started an emotional and physical affair with a man I work with around this time last year. He started seeing someone about 3/4 months before me and him started talking. He's 15 years older than me,I'm 32 he's 47. We connected on a level I never ...

I can't forget the guy I cheated with.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - About 6 months ago, I cheated on my boyfriend with a male friend. I won't go into details, but my boyfriend and I worked through it and I cut contact with the other guy. Today he sent me an email to wish me happy Christmas and said he misses me. I ...

Boyfriend lied about moving overseas to keep sleeping with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - My Boyfriend and I broke up I'm very depressed this Christmas we had been together for a year with a 2 month breakup in between because he refused to tell anyone about me... He claims to be private I took him back because I don't believe he was ...

My friend has gotten himself involved with a bad girl and I want to help him but unsure what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2140 days ago

24 December 2018 (F) - I'm worried about a guy friend as he's got himself involved with a girl who is bad news. Hes started distancing himself from everyone who's warning him and is distancing himself from close friends She's a complete bitch sorry to say - take a mon...

We had a fight my children's present are at my boyfriend's house and he won't let me get them

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

23 December 2018 (F) - My boyfriend ruins every Christmas and I don't know what to do. We went last minute shopping today which was his idea. In a supermarket he said he needed the toilet so I decided to cash in a scratch card while I was waiting. The till is right by...

Should I give her a Christmas present for her son.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2163 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - Over the past couple of months i have been getting to know a really nice woman that i have met locally to where i live, she is 37, and im 42. We are taking things really slow at the moment as we both have a lot going on at present. Things are ...

Is it possible to love 2 women the same way at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - When i was 13 i dated this girl, who we will call girl "A". After half a year she broke up with me. 3 years later i started dating one of her close cousin, which we will call girl "B". we ended up talking online and eventually getting together. Yes ...

I just can’t stop thinking I’m betraying her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2130 days ago

21 December 2018 (M) - About a year and a half back I went to a online school. Now I meet one girl in one of my classes and we started taking usually for 1 or 2 hours a day, however soon it grew to like 9 hours per day sometimes more, in the one year time period I got to ...

My friend has been asking why she can't get a partner. Should I tell her what I think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2160 days ago

20 December 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles! My friend recently started asking me seriously (up until now it was purely rhetorical) why she can't find a partner. Should I tell her what I think? It's just an opinion, I'm not a shrink. I'm afraid that she migh...

I do not want my kids to inherit my partner's health problems!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2169 days ago

18 December 2018 (M) - I am in a moral dilemma. My partner has some health conditions such as endometriosis, which means she has a harder time falling pregnant with a chance of not falling pregnant at all. She has other minor health conditions which after thinking about ...

I want to show him I care but I also don’t want to be a burden or an annoyance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2171 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - I was dating a guy for only 6 weeks. Things were going really well other than he wasn’t feeling good. Long story short, his symptoms have gotten worse and he’s not been working much and under going testing and imaging to see what’s wrong. So far, ...

He puts sex before my needs. Is it time to walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2171 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and have a two year old child. I’ve been struggling to hang onto our relationship for a while but when I try to tell him what I need in the relationship he makes it out as if he’s ...

Should I hold on to Alice? Break it off? And what about my wild partying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2172 days ago

17 December 2018 (M) - I've been in a committed relationship for all of my adult life (7 years). But alas, she moved away (far away) and left me single. I've decided to move on. Lately, I've been seeing a girl I met online. Lets call her Alice. We have shocking amount ...

Why did he still help his supposedly awful ex despite whatever she did to him? Is he lying to me about his feelings for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2169 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - Hi, i hope i can get some advice here to move on in my life. I have been with my boyfriend coming up two years, we get on well and i feel we are compatible. but there is a problem. My boyfriend went to America when he was 19 years old, stayed with...

When he is sober he's nice, when he is drunk its a big downfall.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2169 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm kinda dating one man few months, but I'm quite worried about him, because many times we go out, he drinks. While I'm having one beer or glass of wine, he has few and often some hard liquors too..he gets pretty drunk often to the level th...

I've met a lovely man but my ex wants to pick up where we left off.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - right now im feeling meh . everything but my love life is going great. I got into online dating and have met a fantastic man we get on so well apart from odd times he acts like a 5 year old espesh around his 8 yr old nephew. He really acts like a ...

How do I stop thinking about my married colleague and convince myself that I don't love her in order to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

15 December 2018 (M) - Hi About 10 months ago I split up with my long term partner. In this months leading up to it I had what I'd describe as an emotional affair with a married woman in my office. My ex partner didn't know, the two just coincided. I knew couldn'...

Why do men string me along?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

14 December 2018 (F) - Hello. I am a 43 year old woman who asked for advice with her I’ll health and dead end personal life last hear and I got good advice. This year, I worked in a better job and started dating people in may. I do meet men but they are usually youn...

Boyfriend refuses to use his sex toys with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2171 days ago

14 December 2018 (F) - Hi I'm having a sexual problem with my boyfriend any advice you could give would be helpful thanks.. My boyfriend never tells me what he likes in bed he always says he likes what we are doing.. The thing is I know he likes porn actually I think it...

I'm not happy with my girlfriend and my crush is now single.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

12 December 2018 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for past year and half. Because of her excessive mood swings, things have become difficult for me. I tried talking to her about this but she says this is how she is. We love each other and try to ...

I'm being used by a totally useless boyfriend and I feel trapped

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2176 days ago

12 December 2018 (F) - When me and my guy first got together about 8 months ago, he had his own vehicle, his own place to live with a roommate, a good paying job, and was easy to get along with. After about 5 months i agreed to let him move in with me but things went ...

Should I tell my friend that I am dating his ex wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2172 days ago

12 December 2018 (M) - I'm dating a freiends ex wife. He's a good friend but don't see him much, 1 time in the last two years. He remarried and his ex wife was also remarried and divorced for 5 year. Is it important that I still tell him?...

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is obsessed with sex! He constantly tells about sex, tries it on.even when I have been ill. I had a colopscopy procedure a few months ago and it was meant to be 6 weeks recovery time..after a few days he told me I should be having s...

Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I'm just curious for other people's experiences, although I know every one is different. Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you" ? My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 8 months and are e...

How can I approach faith and dating ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2176 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I realize my question is towards faith and love but I wanted to come here since I got fantastic advice during my abusive relationships. I have been in what I would say emotionally neglectful combative home - my youth was always comparative to what ...

Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

11 December 2018 (M) - So a while back I met a woman through my sister-in-law. We've been talking on the phone a lot, and met up for lunch a couple times since we work near each other. It's obvious there's a chemistry between us. I'd like to ask her out. She has a ...

Am I being unrealistic. Is it too late to change my thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2178 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I really hope that men in particular won’t take this question. Personally because obviously it’s not aimed at anyone and I realise that there must be good men in the world but I want to ask if any women have experienced similar to me and how they ...

Date wanted me to add him as a friend when I did he said I didnt need to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2178 days ago

10 December 2018 (F) - I went on a date this weekend and had a great time. The man i was with said he wants to see me again. We had been chatting on social media and i decided to add him as a friend. When i checked if he had added me he had changed his settings so i ...

Why am I so scared to be in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2178 days ago

10 December 2018 (F) - Why am i so scared to be in a relationship? Im 26 with 2 kids, my baby father is the only guy ive been with sexually and all he was my first everything lol..im probably ashamed because im 26 with little to no experience, and am i weird because i ...

His ex was HOT ... is he settling for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - My bf and I have been dating a little over a year. This insecurity of mine is due to one particular ex coming up several times in our convos. Always comes up about how guys swooned over his ex because she was hot. My bf says I'm the best he has ...

I like my boyfriend but get all flustered when the crush is around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2179 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - Hi im a 20 years old female from philippines I have a boyfriend and we are already dating for more than a year now,but before we started dating the one i used to like is one of his friends,i even once tried to make a move on him first but he rejec...

I showed interest in a shy guy, now he wont leave me alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2178 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - I've been acquaintances/friends with a guy from work for about 9 months, we weren't really close but had a lot in common and chatted when we saw each other. He's in his thirties and openly admitted once to not being good with women. Anyway we were ...

Loves first kiss ..........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2126 days ago

9 December 2018 (M) - How can I kiss a girl who is taller than me without looking silly. I imagine we will be standing since it will be the first kiss. ...

I want to talk to a boy on the swimming team but don't know how

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2176 days ago

6 December 2018 (F) - so I'm on a swim team with a boy that I really like but I don't know how to talk to him without sounding like an idiot/jerk, please help!...

New boyfriend gets upset because I wont let him move in.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

6 December 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now. Previously married for 5 years. Our relationship has been rocky to say the least but we have come to a crossroads suddenly. He lives with his mom and they are getting evicted. He isn’t working at ...

How can I be subtle and hint that I'd like him to ask me to the prom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2183 days ago

5 December 2018 (F) - I really want to go to prom with this guy. He means a lot to me and so I really want to go this dance together because I think we can take our relationship to the next level if he takes me. he is a really amazing guy that i've been flirting on...

Is this relationship even worth working towards if she is so secretive about her past?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

3 December 2018 (M) - In July I met a girl at work, she had just moved to my very small hometown a few weeks before we met. She is 23 and has a 1 year daughter. We quickly became friends and I started crushing on her at the same time. She very quite but lots of fun once ...

I love him and want to stay with him, so why can't I let go of these fears that my marriage wont last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

3 December 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He's 23, I'm 25. I'm the first girlfriend he's ever had, he's my fourth relationship. Everything with us is pretty much perfect. I've never had a relationship this comfortable before. It seems like ...