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writes:so I'm on a swim team with a boy that I really like but I don't know how to talk to him without sounding like an idiot/jerk, please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2018): Just, act confident when you speak with him, and be natural.
But don't get to interrogative, this could destroy the good mood. Overall, speak to him with finesse, confidence , and act natural.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (9 December 2018):
 Hi there. Why not just keep it simple and start by talking about swimming. Maybe ask him he got into it or if he wants to pursue it professionally etc. See where that takes you because if he is happy to chat about that then he'll more that likely be happy to chat about other things.You could maybe compliment him on his swim style/skill What ever happens just relax and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2018): Just say hi and ask him his name? Ask what other classes he has where he’s from? Keep it simple.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (8 December 2018):
 If he’s your age, go for it. If not, let it go. Just find a time when a conversation would naturally start, like waiting around before/afterwards. “Hey, how long have you been swimming here?” and try to carry on a short conversation about your joint hobby. Be patient and calm.
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