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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails where he was flirty to other girls. What should I do about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend left his FaceBook logged in on my laptop and asked me to reply to his mate on chat! But in doing so I had seen he had a few girls who he had recently spoken to and I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails and he was speaking...

I understand we can't commit -- how do we avoid getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3772 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - I met a man I get along with really well about two months ago. He's been clear from the start that he doesn't think he can be in a relationship now, and I'm hoping to leave the country for a while in about a year and a half, so neither of us think ...

Should I give up on this girl? She's come up with all kinds of excuses for why we can't get together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

30 July 2014 (M) - I am very close to giving up on this girl and I just want to see if I should or if there is still hope. I met her a couple months ago at Wondercon, we connected well and I got her number. After a couple text exchanges (with very delayed response...

I want to help my boyfriend last longer in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I'm dating this guy and I am absolutely in love with him. We've had sex a few times and each time it's only been for about 10 minutes. (if that) because he cums pretty fast. we do a lot of foreplay and he normally fingers me and things like that ...

He's dry in his texts and never compliments me, but he keeps asking to see me and is messaging while on his holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Hi there, so im seeing this guy for about a month now we see each other about once a week! i cant tell if hes into me or not as hes really dry over text and never compliments me? but he still asks to see me! hes on holiday just now and managed to ...

What interesting things can I do with a guy at a boring mall?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I'm going on a date with a 23 year old I met online tomorrow afternoon. Now, at 19, this is my first date. I havn't even told him that because I find it so embarrassing. We've planned on meeting at a mall. I'd like some ideas on fun, flirty, ...

How do I get my BF to take the next step?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I am caught in limbo and need help. My boyfriend of a year and a half has been stalling for months now about the "next step". When I first brought it up at 8 months, he said he needed a year before he could consider things. At a year and 3 months, ...

How do I put myself out there to ask this older girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3773 days ago

30 July 2014 (M) - Ok, so i have a few question on how i should do something, and i'm looking for some solid, simple advice. Story: So i'm a junior in high school, and there is a girl i like, who i don't know very well. We've met once, but i felt like she might be...

I have a gut feeling that something is wrong between her and me. Do you think I am wrong about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - So I've been dating this girl for a few months now I just have a gut feeling something is wrong. I do have some trust issues and paranoia from past problems but they aren't as bad as they used to be. She's always getting facebook notifications bu...

Online dating issues. I want to message him, but what would I say to him now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I joined an online dating site and met a man and had quite a few dates with him. He wanted to keep his options open, but I caught him out in a lie when he said he was not at a place when he was. Since then he went quiet on me and so I told him he's...

How do I deal with this feeling of confidence or lack of confidence in my body image?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Does anyone have this re-ocurring feelings and nervousness that they might not actually look the way they appear in picture when they are about to go on a date with someone they met online This is my first date with a wonderful chinese girl i m...

Have I missed the bus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Have I missed the bus? Hi I'm a fifty year old from rural England who is at the end of a relationship that has not worked for the last few years, the thing is I feel as though I won't find a woman for love at my point in life, I'm getting quite low ...

He put down the booze and picked up the anger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - Last year I was seeing someone for over a year (we were friends for 3 years prior to dating) and we broke it off because he had some issues with alcohol. That issue has become a lot better. We started hanging out again in May and have been trying to ...

I keep having trouble reading women and I'm getting frustrated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

28 July 2014 (M) - All my life, I keep having trouble meeting girls/young women and I know I must be reading them wrong. Tell me please what magic tricks you're using because I've asked and I've read up on body language and I'm still lost (and yeah, getting pissed ...

I know its hypocritical of me, but I am jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hi all, So my ex and I broke up a Couple of months ago. We needed the time to resolve some issues and now we have decided to try again. I dated during our break up, and he did too except he went on a dating profile as he's not a big drinker and also...

I really want her to feel appreciated and loved.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

28 July 2014 (M) - Ok. So my girlfriend went to stay with her best friend last week. They have been close for 5 years and it turns out last week he told ger that he was in love with her. We have been together for 7 years and when she came back there was a huge...

What sort of vibes do these men want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hello. Happy to find you guys and ladies here. My problem? I've been told by a couple of guys that the reason they haven't approached me or tried to have sex with me is because I haven't given them those kind of vibes. well, I don't know what vibes ...

My B/f's having a relationship with another girl who I was led to believe was his ex, I snooped though his texts and guess what I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hey all so I've been dating this guy going on 3 months we started dating while he was in another relationship. The relationship was serious he and the girl he was with had been together a year and 3 months and they lived together. Any way I was so...

I'm 7 years older, will I look like a creep if I pursue this 19 year old girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

28 July 2014 (M) - Dear cupid I'm a 26 year old guy and i've developed feelings for this 19 old girl that I'v known since she was 10 years old. The thing is I'v known her three brothers for years they are not close friends but I'v always had a good understanding with ...

Is this a way for women to flirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

28 July 2014 (M) - Sometimes when I am sitting waiting for a bus, girls also doing same, keep standing in front of me, every so often looking at me and then down or away. Then she looks up at the time the bus is coming, back at me. Walk away from the shelter then back ...

I'm nervous about showing affection, maybe because of my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3776 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I am seeing a man who I like a lot. I could go on and on about all the things we have in common, and what a great guy he is, but I am writing to you because I have a bit of an obstacle. I find it so incredibly difficult to get intimate with him! ...

I'm gutted that my boyfriend canceled our getaway weekend and went out with friends instead!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. Things have always been good. Recently we've both been busy with work but I've found I'm seeing my boyfriend less and less. He plays football for a local club and trains ...

I want him to meet my extended family but he says he has to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a football coach in an academy he works 6 days a week which includes every weekend. Is it unreasonable for me to want him to have a Saturday off for my aunt and uncles 40th wedding anniversary so he can meet my extended family? He's ...

At the moment writing is his priority, I want marriage and kids in the future, do I wait or walk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend just over a year. Everything is amazing! I thought i was in love with previous partners but nothing compares to how i feel about him. Hes so much fun and just completely gets me. He is eight years older than me. I have a ...

I want a relationship but I cant even talk to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - I'm desperate for a relationship and need help. Every time I fall for a girl I'm friend zoned. I'm not necessarily good at talking to girls at first and I am always kind of pushed into talking to a girl. I can't even start a decent conversation ...

My boyfriend lied, and I don't know how to approach him about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - So I've just found out, for the 1st time, that my boyfriend has lied to me. We've been together for 3 amazing months, it's left me feeling on top of the world. We had arranged to see each other tonight and tomorrow before he goes away for...

I have to tell him I am moving, but I'm worried he might see it as a big complication!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I apologise in advance for the long post. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and things seem to be working out fine. We haven't yet defined what the relationship is, and I'm afraid of asking, because I don't want to seem desperat...

Should I ask out the 22 year old woman I'm interested in?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

26 July 2014 (M) - Hi I'm a 31 year old guy, 2 months ago I split up with a 23 year old. Now I've met a 22 year old who I like but I'm worried she is too young for me so I haven't asked her out yet. I got the impression from a few of my friends and family tha...

My friends and family say he will cheat on me because he is in a band!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy Jake for a few months he is 25 and a singer in a band. He also works with a local contracting company. Most of my family and friends say that are relationship wont work because of his "free" behaviour and that he goes out...

We are of different faiths and he says I don't appreciate him enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together for about 2.5 yrs now. Im muslim and he's not too religious, but since his father is Jewish, he tends to identify as a Jew. Anyways, we were friends before we began dating, but when we got serious, ...

I'd like to tell him I've fallen in love but I don't want to pressure him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - Should I tell my boyfriend I am falling in love with him? We have been together for only a few months but it hit me recently that I am in love with him. Or should I wait for him to say it first? I don't wana put pressure on him to say it if he ...

Have no intention of replicating my taboo fantasies in real life. But is one of my fantasies too taboo to share with my Bf? What counselling could help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - To put it simply, I have a really bad kink that involves getting off on taboo fantasies. I've fantasized about strange things most other women don't such as picturing my boyfriend with another woman, and I have read incest erotica online, but NONE...

Found the girl of my dreams. Am I being too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (M) - So I've found the girl of my dreams she makes me a better person and I have never felt this way about anyone before. The problem is I'm afraid I'm being too clingy as of recently we haven't seen each other as much as we did, due to work. we hav...

Am I over-reacting to what I discovered about my Bf's Hooters visit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. Recently, he went to Hooters with his friends and at first, I was pretty annoyedd but then I got over it until I found videos in his history of Hooters girls. Am I overreacting because I feel lik...

Teenager looking for advice on talking to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - Hello, I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm looking for advice on talking to guys. I've always stayed in a small group of girls through school life as that's the kind of group I feel comfortable socialising with. I'd really like to push myself to talk t...

Losing boyfriend to world of Warcraft?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - So my boyfriends gotta back into playing Warcraft over the last few months. It's really starting to get on my nerve cause I believe it's starting to affect our relationship. I don't care what he does in his free time when I'm not around, but lately ...

The stress of working a night shift and an uneventful birthday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - Known my boyfriend for almost five years and at times, I feel like he disregards my feelings or things important to me. He's nice and generous but again, I just get frustrated. Like yesterday, I went to his place and had to work the night shift that ...

I am good at giving a good impression but now am afraid I have to tell him the truth about who I was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I've just gotten in a relationship with this friend who I've liked for a long time, and I'm so happy. But. He is so incredibly honest and it's in my nature to be deceitful so people "see" the "best" in "me", but he see's straight past that and insp...

How can I get him to work out problems in our relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm still just as much in love with him as when I first met him. I really want to spend the rest of my life with him and we often talk about having a future together but it's hard to see whenever a ...

I feel like a booty call without the sex! Should I give him a chance or run for the hills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. My issue is for some reason if I plan a date something family related always comes up and he either ends up coming really late or rescheduling. The huge thing is we always end up hanging out ...

The men I meet talk the talk but don't walk the walk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Hi all, just looking for a bit of insight on this one! I'm 26, and literally the only single one left out of all my friends! When I was 15, I had my first boyfriend and we were together for 5 years. I broke it of as we drifted apart, and I finished ...

Would it be okay to go out with a friend of the opposite sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship of about 5 months, we were together previously. I have a friend who I haven't physically seen, just messaged since I reentered my relationship. My friend did admit he had feelings for me previously when i was single, but i ...

I caught him talking sexually with other men but he denies it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I need help! I have caught my boyfriend (for the second time) talking to men sexually. We are happy (or so I thought). we've been living together for over a year. He denies everything, i even sent the "mystery man" an email, he says they never ...

Why is my boyfriend so insensitive towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - HI, I feel very disappointed with my bf after 3 years. I take alot of effort for him to make him feel special for bday, anniversary etc. But very seldom he does things for me. Yesterday, i reminded him about our anniversary is this weekend and...

Why have I never felt this way about any other guy? He makes me tingle.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is the one and only person that I have ever been with that literally makes me go crazy horny when I think of him. I'm thirty years old! I never felt this physical attraction with anyone else.. Sorry for TMI but my clitoris literall...

I've made it clear: monogamy is my preference. Am I over-reacting to his suggestion re a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Help my partner has told me he would participate in a threesome with me and another man if I ever wanted that . I told him that I would never ask for that and the fantasy is one thing but in real life a threesome is not something I'm interested in ...

What do I do ? Go back to a safe comfortable marriage with a kind man and be unhappy? Or try again with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for twenty years and although I love my husband there has never been the chemistry that I had before him in another relationships. Even at the beginning with my husband it wasn't there , yet I had been in previous relation...

LDR issues: Don't want to lose him, but things are moving too fast

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - How can I help to make this LDR work? I met a guy a month ago and he moved too fast with his feelings. I hesitated to date him at first because I have tried two LDRs that failed because the first one I wasn't really in love and the second one basi...

She wanted to tell me he is a "player" so I wouldn't get hurt. Is he really a player or is he reformed? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have met this guy on facebook( we both graduated same year in high school) and he lives in one state and I moved to another state, almost 8 yrs ago. He and I found love with each other just by talking on facebook. Been together for 1 month an...

Is it worth trying to make a LDR work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

23 July 2014 (M) - So I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. She is now a senior in high school and I am going to be a freshman in college. Our relationahip is as amazing as it could be and I love her with all that I got. We have been having numerous talks ...