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*CantThinkOfAScreenName
writes:okay so this requires an insight into the male species! to cut a long story short, ive met this guy, at first we got on really reallly well, could talk for hours without any akwward moments ect... he would occasionally ignore me for a day though? but then he'd be back as usual so i just took it as it came. then we met up and he took me for a drive, it went really well. when he dropped me home i got a text almost straight away from him saying he really enjoyed himself and he thinks he has strong feelings for me and that he thought i was gorgeous... all the usual stuff. me being me, pulled away and when he asked if i wanted to start dating him officially i said i didnt like labels... since then he's ignored me for 5 days on and off and is being really blunt, how do i get him back without sucking up to him? thanks x
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reader, ICantThinkOfAScreenName +, writes (23 May 2011):
ICantThinkOfAScreenName is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay i forgot to mention that after i said i didnt like labels i realised how wrong that could have sounded and explained i was just scared of getting hurt and that i did want us to go somewhere, ive been trying really hard to compliment him too when he does and things like this, he seemed fine wth me one day and the next ignored me,
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reader, jager1234  +, writes (23 May 2011):
Why did you say you don't like labels, if you do like him? If you really don't then you two are looking for two different things, he wants a relationship between you and him clearly....and by saying you don't like labels your making it seem as if you still want to mess around. If I were him that woulda been the ending straw. If you do want a relationship now I would call and explain , maybe just tell him you were scared, and your ready now, if he doesn't answer and you can't make face to face contact either, then I would send this in a text or voicemail. Give hin some time to thinkk about it, no answer within a few days? Move on.
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 hey,
i don't blame him for doing that.... it makes people feel like total crap when people do that. TRUST me, i know, that was the case with my ex-girlfriend, i would say "im gonna miss you!", she says, "i won't be gone long", or "i had fun tonight, thanks, you are amazing!", she would say "yea :)"... LIKE holy cow, we are expecting some respect, we DON'T READ MINDS.
you seriously, don't deserve him if you are going to play with his head like that. If you like him, LABELS wont matter, you don't need to pull away from stuff he says when you really want to say something back. have some respect and dignity, if you want to say something, SAY IT, if you don't wanna say anything and don't wanna have labels or have to show some affection and emotions back, don't go crying back.
and NO kidding he is ignoring you, you ignored him when he tried to compliment you and say nice things. He asks you to date him and you say no in lighter words.. i wouldn't talk to you ever again if i were him, and i don't blame him AT ALL.
i mean no offence to you, it just seems that there are so many girls out there that are like that.
hope this helped.
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