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LDR--is he always out of phone credits because he's talking to someone else?

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Question - (22 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2011)
A female Burkina Faso age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys!

please I really need some help!! Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. I recently had to leave the country and now i am currently in America, while he's in Africa. First of all prom is coming up...and i get that he doesn't want to go alone, so he asked one of my fiends back there. Ever since i left him and her have gotten really close!! like really close! And i just wanted to know...if its right?? they will eventually slow dance at the prom! And maybe even kiss! Is it right what he's doing? And also, apparantly he calls her a lot...and they talk for hours! And he only calls me 2 times a week! Friday..and Saturday! Should i be jealous about this?? Should i do something? How can i do it without being controlling? He's always saying that he's out of credit and he'll talk to me later...is it cause he wasted it all on her??

Please help...!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011):

I would also ask your "friend" what is going on? Is she really a friend? Then tell her it bothers you. and tell him also.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011):

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You really think so??

ok...then thats what ill do! Hopefully it'll work. :-P

uhh yeaa...i plan on seeing him soon. In 30 days in fact!!

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A female reader, adamantine Australia +, writes (22 May 2011):

adamantine agony auntYou need to talk to him and ask him straight up what's going on. You will not come off as controlling if you're just asking about the extent of his friendship with your friend.

Do you have plans to go back to your home country any time soon?

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