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writes:theres a girlm i have started to like and she sounds like she likes me too as we flirt all the time and she immediately replies to my messages that i send her. theres this friend who we both know she went to school with this girl i like and im at college with her. me and this girl met and my friends party a few months back and have got to know each other alot. my friend is having nother party next week and one of my guy friends says he's going to get me a girlfriend at this party and i think me and this girl may happen.the thing im worried about is that i haven't had sex and im 18 and to be honest i haven't even had a girlfriend and i don't think this girl has jhad a boyfriend and she is 17. what do girls think about an 18 year old virgin? and if we do start something should i tell her at some point?thanks
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reader, Newbie31  +, writes (17 June 2011):
 Personally, I think that an 18 year old virgin is attractive. It means you respect yourself and are waiting for the right time (in most cases anyway) if the subject comes up don't try to hide it, but I wouldn't blurt it all out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2011): I'm twenty three and a virgin I just got with my first bf and he a virgin to and I'm proud to say I am because I would want it to be with a guy I been with and care about I don't just want to sleep with anyone and I hope and know my bf respects that I can see me losing my virginty to my bf but only when we been together for a while I'd love it to be with him he kind care and sweet x:-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): I think you are worrying about nothing, 18 year old male virgins are quite common, most of your male friends probably havn't done it either but make out they had loads of girls.Personally I would think you are a respectable guy, that would be something that would stand out to me. I certainly wouldnt think it was a bad thing, this girl hasn't had a bf so maybe she is a virgin too. So dont worry. You dont need to tell her at this point in time, just when it looks like you are both getting serious. Its nothing to worry about or be ashamed of.Good luck.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): What girls say and what girls do are totally different.
Girls say it's not attractive when a guy will fuck anything that walks. But do I need to point out how much girls like a player? They are telling you how they think they should feel, not how they really do feel.
Girls say they like the idea of a guy staying a virgin later. But they usually like the idea in principle more than in practice. In practice they usually think a virgin is weird or less desirable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): It's ok even if she is not a virgin you can tell her that you are...I lost my virginity when i was 20.... so, don't worry...
that's totally normal...:d
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reader, youndandconfused +, writes (22 May 2011):
there is nothing wrong with being 18 and a virgin. If anything id say it is a positive thing. The fact that you have waited to find someone is something to be condoned and admired. As for telling her, go for it but wait until the conversation comes up. Blurting it out before hand could cause her to think you have only one thing on your mind.
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reader, N91 +, writes (22 May 2011):
 I lost my virginity at 19 to a 20 year old girl who is a mate, she'd had sex with about 5 other people - Didn't phase me at all, felt great because it was with someone I cared about!Sure, tell her, it's nothing to be ashamed about, I told my friend and she was pretty shocked, but she said she thinks it's good of me that I waited for someone I cared about and I think it made her special too knowing she was my first after what I'd said to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2011): My boyfriend was a virgin when we first had sex and i wasnt. We were both 17 at the time and are now 19. I honestly didnt mind he was a virgin and liked that he hadnt just slept with lots of girls even though he had the oppotunity.
You dont have to tell her to begin with but if the conversation comes up then dont hide it, its nothing to worry about. Also if things start to become sexual between you two then you could tell her then.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (22 May 2011):
To be 18 and a virgin is completely normal. You are not in a minority.
Many people who say they have had sex at that age usually haven't, but of course that isn't applicable to everyone.
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