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writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months but he doesnt want to introduce to me his family.i have already introduce him to some of my family members.and i found out that he has a child from previous relationship bt he denies that.and the mother of the child have a good relationship with his mother who he doesnt want to introduce me to her.and his mother real likes the child.what should i do i am confused i dont knw what is right and what is wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, Maverickjuniper  +, writes (22 May 2011):
I think that you should examine his relationship with his family. He may have come from a family that he is not proud of or is embarrassed of.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 See how fast you can run and run faster than that!
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (22 May 2011):
It may be he has a lot of other secrets and doesn't want you to find out through the family. You might want to re-evaluate your relationship alltogether.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 Hi
This man needs to grow a set of jingles. He has child and you had to find out from someone else. But he may not have told you in fear his ex would get jealous and stop him from seeing his child.And as she gets on very well with the family his parents would get very angry, because it could also mean they stop seeing their granchild. Sounds very messy to me. If it were me I would walk away, and find someone who is not ashamed to be with me, or show me off to his family and freinds. Someone who is man enough to stand up for himself, and admit when he is wrong. Dont be his dirty little secret any longer, you deserve better. xx
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 You should ask yourself, do you think that you deserve better than all that? Absolutely.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 Uh what a mess. Short and simple advise : avoid it. He has a child, the child and his mother are close to his family so probably they interact often... and he, not only "forgets " to tell you about that, but even DENIES the existence of this kid ?? If that does not sound for you ear-splitting alarm bells, then you WANT to be played.
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