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*Kofourteen
writes:what am i going to do, im madly in love with my first cousin..we first felt this special connection when he went home on the Philippines when we were just 14, one night when we were both sleeping on the same bed, he just kissed me and i got so shocked didn´t say a word thinking that its very wrong of him to do such thing.. when he was about go back home to his place in Sweden, he kissed me again, a sweet goodbye kiss that i will never forget.. i know that i felt something special when he first kissed me,its just a great spark! like my heart feels like flying,after that we haven´t seen each other for a long time it was like 4 years without communication at all.. last year 2010 my mom decided to migrate here at Sweden so now were living here and now i am more often with my cousin that i once had fallen in love with.. i thought that i already erased that feeling that i had for him before, but i was wrong when i saw him again for the first time after that 4 years.. it feels like my heart feels so alive! im still in love with him,after a couple of months he tried to kiss me, but i'm stil rejecting,but after a while i realized that i would really regret it if i won´t take the chance, so i kissed him back! and he was so surprised after that day he told me about what he feels and so did i,we both decided to take it to the next level so we became girlfriends and boyfriends.. so now we both have this special relationship for 6 months and i was right! i never feel regrets at all.. in fact, i´ve never been this happy before! we both love each other so so so much! but we´re both too scared about our family knowing about this.. we´re being too carefull about hiding it..and we are both having sex with each other but we don´t do it just for fun we do it coz we love each other so much and we respect each other too as well.. he doesn´t force me if i don´t want to.. he´s just so perfect! i love him so much!! and im ready to take the risk just to be with him.. ---i love you baby---*=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): OMG! we have exact the same experience. Are you a filipina? but yeh mine was complicated as yours. I didnt tell him yet about my feelings until now. Its good for the two of you, im happy for the two of you, keep it up. And dont worry about the challeneges that will come your way regarding your relationship, if the two of you are really meant to be then destiny will find a way. OMG really! luckily i read your story haha we share exact the same one. You two share a really romantic love story:D
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): im so happy for you . :) we are in the same boat. me and my cousin are 3 yrs now and just waiting for the right time to be together. hope we both have our happy endings with the person that we love.
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reader, hKofourteen +, writes (23 May 2011):
hKofourteen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i love him and we love each other so much.. im too scared to lose him... i really don´t know what to do.. and at the same time i don´t wanna ruin his life too.. i want him to reach his goals and have a better future. all i want is that he´ll be happy.. then i´ll e happy too..*=)
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 I'm sorry to disagree with you, "Gemini", but modern research finds no greater incidences of birth defects in children born to cousins than any other pairing. It's a different matter with siblings, of course, but even then not that much.Where the difficulty lies is in society; the cultural mores will always lag behind the science and you will have social opposition.
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