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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boy friend always locks his cell phone and always textin he dont let me answer his phone but i let him get my phone. i want to know is he cheatin on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): I have been with my bf for four years and he locks his phone when I'm around. I know he talks to other women and he locks his phone because he knows that I will check it because I've done it before. I just hit him or break somd shit and break up wit him and cry and he tells me lies saying he wont do it again and how sorry he is. So now, even though I Love this man and feel like I can't live without him, I just treat him like he treats me. I got plenty of male friends cuz i csnt jus let him play me. Hopefully one day all this can come to an end. I dont knw how much more pain I can take from him and im ready for us to be a family. O I didn't mention he ended up having an outside child. Just be prepared for the worst when u go snooping around. I think if he locks his phone he's ft secrets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): well ive had the same thing happen to me recently. My bf and I have been together for awhile and we live together and a few months back he started hiding his phone, like he would lock it and take it everywhere so I wouldnt try to look in it and he stopped letting me answer his phone. once that happened I knew something was up, so one day he got drunk and left his phone unlocked on the couch so i looked in his messages and found numerous messages and nude pictures from a girl he knew way back. so basically what im telling you is that if he allowed you before to touch his phone and now freaks out if you even touch his phone now then he needs to be confronted and be treated as guilty until proven innocent.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Demand that he show you his phone or accuse him of cheating.
If he loves you and respects you , he will show it. Otherwise, he is most probably cheating on you .
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reader, ChristineAvril  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Why would you want to look into his private areas? Would you read his diary, if he kept one, or read his personal letters?
Personally, I DO beliave in the "no secrets" philosophy between soulmates, but everyone is different and you should respect that.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Sounds suspicious. I wouldn't say he definitely is cheating, but it does sound very suspicious. Keep an eye out for other signs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): From my experiences - my ex bf used to take his phone everywhere and never leave it anywhere, even to the toilet and shower... i became sus.. and for good reason - he was cheating. Now im not saying ur bf is cheating, he could just be a very private person. But in a healthy relationship nothing should be kept secret. Simply ask him if you can go thru his phone because you've found it uncomfortable the fact that he hides it and locks it from you, if he has nothing to hide he will happily show you, if he gets angry and mad about it... id be careful then!!
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