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*mconfused1982
writes:I have been in a relationship for 6 months, my boyfriend lives with me and he tells me he loves me everyday. i thought our relationship was going great until, i got on the computer after him and saw he was on a dating sight connected to facebook. i ask him about it and he said he was only talking to a friend that he had an account before we started dating. He was on the site for a while and when i asked him who he was talking to he said (chris) didnt say anything about some girl. im far from being a jealous person people have friends both male and female. But the dating site really bothered me! should i belive him or tell him to hit the road and call his online friend? please help im going crazy thinking about it.
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Youre welcome. All the best x
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reader, tmconfused1982 +, writes (26 May 2010):
tmconfused1982 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just wanted to thank everyone for their advice, My boyfriend and I talked about it and he agreed to delete the site and never put me in this kind of situation again. He swore to me he wasnt lookin for anyone else. I hoping I can trust him and this will never happen again. I love this man with all my heart. He swore he would never hurt me. So I'm going to trust him. If it happens again he will be gone, no second chances. Thanks again
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (25 May 2010):
i have a similar dilema at the moment and we have talked it through and he has deleted his account. It is quite simple, if he is dating you then he shouldnt be on the dating site, its not like you have been dating a week, you have been together for 6 months!he can talk to friends on facebook chat, there is no need to be on the dating site at all. tell him to delete his account.you are only on a dating site if you are still looking, if he isn't looking then he shouldn't be on there. if he wont delete the account then I think you already know that he obviously thinks more of his online dating account than your relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 May 2010):
He's with you, so he shouldn't be on the dating site. So he either comes off it, or you move on.
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (25 May 2010):
Its not appropriate for him to be using a dating site for anything if hes in an exclusive relationship with you. Ask him to delete the account. It would bother me if my partner was in a dating site too, so i dont think you are being unreasonable in the least.
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reader, cindy 15 +, writes (25 May 2010):
 even if your boyfriend is on a dateing line doesnt mean he is cheating on you really but is flirting with oter girls if that isnt k with u...
u can decide what to do
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