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writes:I've strarted talking to this girl. We have been on a few dates ad at the end of the second she seemed to kiss me( I was going to make a move, but I kinda feel like ahe beat me to it). We talked about future hangout plans, she wants to drive or pay next time to return the favor. I called her the next day and she didn't all back, which is understandable. She texted in the morning saying she just got my message and would try to call me today. What does try mean? I thought she liked me, and maybe she is just playing games or something, nut this us the first fuel I have actually liked since my ex so I am a little paranoid about it I guess. Can anyone give me advice on how to handle this? Btw... I am not a kid, just really like this girl for some reason and can't keep my head together!
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (25 May 2010):
 Dear Mr. Not-A-Kid:
I'd say there's just not enough involvement within the span of one first date to make an accurate call on this girl as player or not. Keep us posted with future details and dates and maybe one of us will have something for you. Typically, when someone says "I'll try to call you" that means: I'm sorta busy/tons of classes/work/something is making demands on my time but I will attempt to make it a point to put that thing on pause and make time for you. It's not a promise, though. It's not a negative thing. I think you should just give this a reasonable chance to shake out and see if it comes online. Just relax, give it some time, and try very hard not to put a negative spin on every little thing that is said or done, k?
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reader, KaileyLove  +, writes (25 May 2010):
 Ok, well, I think when she says "try" she means that she is probably busy and will see if she has time to call later. I'm sure that it's nothing personal, she's just got alot to do for the time being.If she agrees to hang out more with you, then she thinks that you're fun to be around.If she kissed you, then she really likes you.I think that you really like her too, keep hanging out with her.
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