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writes:recently i told my friend the girl i liked in confidence, then he's told someone, and they told someone etc. and sure as it gets, she found out. i don't know how she reacted because i just found out on the bus back from school, but i don't know what to do if she does know, she's not like one of the girls who every boy likes but i really do, so i don't want this to ruin it. i don't know if i could ask her straight in case she says no. would should i do?
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reader, MD-068 +, writes (2 August 2010):
MD-068 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni went for it (it took me a little while to build up the confidence, but i did in the end). and i just remembered that it was pretty much all of you who helped me go for it, and since you all said go for it I'd like to thank you all for helping me.
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 It's time to come clean. Talk to her in private (not on the bus where others are around, nor in the halls at school when students are walking past, but in private). Just tell her how you feel. You'll regret it if you don't and she'll feel kind of hurt or confused if she heard you like her and you never come up to her. The worst thing that can happen is she'll say "no, I don't like you" and then you'll know. Good luck!
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reader, Blod +, writes (16 January 2010):
 I think you should be straight with her. She knows now so there's nothing stopping you from confronting her about it. It won't be easy but at least she's had to time to think about it. She's more likely to know how she feels. This might not have been you wanted but it's an opportunity for you to go for it. Talk to her and see how it goes. Best of luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 January 2010):
This is the time to ask her how she feels. If you don't, she'll be confused and might think you're wasting time. I think you should just be honest. Easier said than done, I know. But it would be sad if you said nothing and she liked you.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Its already out in the open so just go up to her and tell her how you feel. Atleast this way she'll know its coming from you and you mean it. Also you'll get to see how she feels, if she's not into you then the worst you can get is a no. If anything confronting her will prove more to her and she'll be more likely to like you back if she's undecided as of now.
If she knows and really doesn't like you then you would have heard about it very quickly. She's probably interested and waiting for you to make a move so I say go for it.
Good luck.
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