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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: my girlfriend won a bet and asked me to smooch her hard thrice .....we have done this before many times ....is she just using me to satisfy her needs ? i didnt speak a word and she soon realised that she was desperate, then she said was joking and that she just wants a kiss on her cheeks....but i know she wasnt joking....does she really respect me and my love? she shows love and concern all the time though....i know she thinks i am a jerk and an over emotional guy who watches her every action....i am confused... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (15 January 2010):
I am confused too. Wouldn't 'smooching' just be par for the course if she is your girlfriend? So how does kissing your girlfriend equate to be used, ... if she is in to you of course she wants to kiss you, ... but perhaps you are not that in to her if you view kissing her back as having an ulterior motive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Is she actually your gf or is she just a female friend?? Surely if she was your gf you would be smooching her more often??
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