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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating this guy for almost two years now. We are the best of friends and he's always there for me and I just feel really close to him. He says I am the first to make him feel this way or to change him in a good way (such as his temper problems). About a month ago, he brought home a girl and got "touchy feely" with her. He says they were both drunk which is no excuse. He ignored me for 2 days and finally confessed when I forced it out of him. I was deeply hurt and is still hurting from this. I am constantly thinking he is lying to him from that point on. I've become one of those that checks his phone, not wanting to for the fear of finding something I don't want to see but I had to do it because the curiosity has gotten the best of me. He promised he will not talk to her ever again. Can he be trusted again? I believe everyone deserves a second chance; however, a few weeks ago, he saw her and he gave her his number. Ever since this whole situation, we've been arguing everyday.
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reader, FallenAngel19 +, writes (15 January 2010):
I been in this same situation and still am. if he was drunk and was really sorry then he shouldn't of given her his number. it will be very very hard, but if a guy doesn't respect what you want and will fight with you about it then you need to find a faithful guy
good luck girl
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