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writes:Hey everyone.....Im 16 years old and I have this problem. My problem is that with every boyfriend I had, i've cheated on. I can never have a boyfriend and not cheat on him. Its something that i hate doing and I know its wrong but I cant help it.....cheatingis like an addictive habit. I cheat on every single guy I go out with and cant do anything about it. What does this mean ?? thanks so much......really do appreciate any advice Reply to this Question
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reader, sexseahot +, writes (13 February 2010):
 I was just like you when I was your age. I cheated on EVERY single guy that I dated until I got the one I wanted. I am 27 now and have been with my bf for almost 5 years and haven't and don't plan on cheating on him. You are just young and having some fun. It's possible you may have not dated anyone you were really into yet since you keep finding others. There's nothing at all wrong with you and don't let anyone say so. It's a faze and once you get older and find someone you really can't live without, you will stop your cheating, but until then just have some fun and try not to get caught ;)
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (13 February 2010):
 I don't think there's anything wrong with you, sweetie. You're young, and need to be free to explore what kind of a guy you really like. When you get committed at a young age, you really can miss out on alot, then suddenly you're older and realize you didn't get a chance to date like other people and you start wondering what you missed. My sister only dated one guy from the time she was 14, till they married, and 15 years later, they divorced because both of them felt they really weren't right for each other. So take your time, date, have fun! Don't try to stick to just one guy right now, that way you won't cheat..right? Have fun!
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reader, kyle_sa +, writes (13 February 2010):
 well, that's you a cheater and unfaithful. you barely 16 and doing all that.. STRANGE!! you better work on that otherwise you gonna have an STD that ruins your life!! Do you have parents that watch over you? how you gonna luv and have a lifetime partner when you already tried every guy out there? understand that once a girl's feeling is messed up it can be never "reconstructed"!! stop being an animal and wait for the right guy!! "GIRLS ARE FRAGILE; THEY NEED SPECIAL HANDLING"
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): Yeah maybe you're just not ready to commit. Stay true to who you and and don't get a boyfriend when you know you will just end up cheating. No need to be a cheater, just live life as a single and kiss anyone you wont without guilt!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 February 2010):
It means you aren't ready for a boyfriend yet.
You've discovered what it's like to have boys like you and that's a good feeling.
It probably also means you don't think a lot of yourself so you need that feeling to reassure you that you are valued by someone.
Stay single for a while and figure out what's great about you other than the fact boys want to do things to you. What are you good at in school? What do you want to do in life? What are your dreams and how will you get them?
There is far more to life than boys, and once you find that out, you will stop needing them to make you feel good. It's far better to know that a guy wants you and to turn him down because you are with someone better. You just haven't discovered that feeling yet.
Good Luck!! xx
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