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Is it weird that I am uncomfortable with my boyfriend alone?

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Question - (13 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i feel nervous to call my bf on the phone and to go on dates with him alone. is that weird?

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A female reader, Alexia1991 United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2010):

hey,

I have a friend who is pretty much the same :)

Think about it, why is it that you're nervous?

Is it because you don't know what to say to him, are you excited or are you worried about something he might do?

I think its pretty normal to get nervous if you haven't been going out that long, its all part of it :)

but if he makes you feel really uncomfortable when you're alone together maybe he isnt the right guy for you

and perhaps he feels the same way, its difficult but if it doesnt get any better then try to talk to him, not easy but worth a try

Good Luck xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010):

Do you know why you feel nervous? if it is excited nerves then no that it not weird, that is pretty normal. Could you double date to make you feel more comfortable?

It could also mean that you are not ready for dating yet though.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010):

Hay your young its called butterflies in the tummy. You will start to get used to it. It tends to happen when you think that you have feeling for someone or when you foirst start to get to know someone. Could be nervousness. But you should be able to feel comfortable around a boyfriend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010):

Well, depends why you are nervous. If it is just because you are shy, that is ok. It just means it matters to you what he thinks.

However, I would like to know a little more detail. Tell me more about him.

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