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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hello,I dated a guy for 2 months who wasnt really that into me although he was always replying my e-mails and calling me on the phone but left him cause he was not really clear and sure about what he wanted from me.Now after 3 months he calls again and wants to talk to me iam really afraid of getting hurt. So please tell me what should i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): That is up to you.
If you are interested in him, then don't think of it as you pursuing a relationship. In fact do not call him at all, let him do all of the pursuing, even if you do end up dating, do not call him for at least three months and let him make every move.
I wouldn't have sex with him either for quite some time. This way you will know how into you he is. If he doesn't try to get closer to you and ask you for a relationship, then you haven't been hurt, you know what his intentions were and you protected yourself.
You can date and have fun and leave your heart open to male attention, but make sure that your heart belongs to you and you will not give it away to anyman that does not step up and claim you as the ONE and until that day comes consider yourself a single woman who dates and may commit sexually to one man, but keeps her heart open to othe men because until that man steps up and asks you to marry him, he is NOT committed to you. Being a girlfriend does not make you a wife, just kind of keep that in your mind and in the corner of your heart.
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