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writes:Dear CupidI have got a bit of a beLATEd question for you...dating a seemingly wonderful man- EXCEPT he has serious problems lately respecting my time schedule. I cannot study around him when it's crucial to get things done (we're both med students). He asks for HUGE favors when i have made other, equally important plans. And, he comes over just before i am set to go out with my girlfriends, expecting me to be late for out ladies dinner reservation....Advice please. I need to structure thisdashing devil. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 February 2010):
Simple.
You need to set some boundaries and start saying NO.
Tell him to call before he comes over, and if you are going out with the girls then tell him that, and if he comes over then don't let him in.
Tell him you are on your way out and you haven't got time to see him.
Just stand up for yourself!
Good Luck!! xx
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