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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:after 5 and a half years my bf told me he doesnt know if he still has the feeling for me anymore. when we first got togtehr we started going out in the first copuple of days and we have been together since. we work togther and have been living togther for the past 2 and half years. we do fght but what realtionship doesnt. he always tells me he doesnt like to go out with out me, and it doesnt feel the same when he does go out with out me. we both are jealous kind of people but i am more the type of jealous girl. i love him to death and i do trust him, i trust him a lot but he is a very flirtatious kind of guy and i hate that. i feel as though he is flirting because i am not good enough for him. i know he trusts me too. i always was very insecure about myself, maybe that has to do with my jealous ways. he just got promotted from asst manager to general manager and has a lot on his plate. he has a lot more responsiblity and stress to worry about. and he told me he needs time. he says he doesnt know if he feels the same about me anymore. he says he trys to think about me not there and he doesnt feel anything it doesnt make him upset or anything. but he knows im the type of girl that will be at his beck and call anytime no matter what because im so in love with him. is it possbile to just fall out of love?can it be just stress from work and us being together so much ? im so confused on everything.and i would do anything for him and i know he still cares about me bc he tells me he cares about me. he says he loves seeing me at work and he loves talkin to me and he knows i will always be there for him, he can trust me. and i dont know what to do. everytime we fight we always get back together, this time i dont feel as though we are. i keep trying to ask him .. so how do we stand in our relationship and it bothers him that i keep aasking but after 5+ years and seeing someone all the time i cant just give him soo much space. im hurting, confused and need help ! please
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 After 5+ years , everything seems jaded and routine.There is no more sparkle in the relationship and you feel you are only existing .
You will need to recharge your batteries and find the same interest which attracted you to each other.
A cruise or a holiday together may reignite the flames and rekindle the romance.
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