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How do I get back to talking with him after a long period of silence?

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Question - (13 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok everyone

Please help me i really need lots of advice hear,

well i like this guy still even tho we do not speak anymore, we stoped talking early november last yr, over something really silly,, bear in mind i only new him for a few weeks and slept with him twice and before anyone says it hes not my first.

anyway every now and then i get a txt from him, and then it stops again,

its driving me mad as im always thinking about him and what hes doing

but not really sure what 2 say to him to start talking again

please any advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010):

Here is my advice. TELL HIM TO STOP CONTACTING YOU.

He is not interested in you. Why does he text you? Because he is probably sending the same text to 50 girls in his phone book to see which one is desperate enough to come out and give him some sex.

You knew him for a few weeks and you jumped into bed with him right away, you had sex twice and he hasn't spoken to you or made any effort to have anything with you in four months.

Why are you wasting your time thinking every day about him and why is HE driving you crazy. You are driving yourself crazy wanting something and someone that you cannot have and mistakenly thinking that he is some sort of prize.

If I could have the minutes and seconds I have wasted on men like this during my young life I would pay rubies and gold for them.

Move on.

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