Should I take his threats seriously? Or is he just trying to manipulate the situation?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Please help asap! Theres this guy that i know we really like each other and may enter into a relationship together. Anyway he has this female friend that he slept with numerous times but denies doing it anymore,i saw a txt on his phone before saying he has feelings for her but he denies this aswell. Anyway I thought it was strange that he didnt ask to see me on valentines day,so i thought maybe he is going to see her.I wanted to find out the truth so i said 'can i see you on valentines day?' He said no he is going to his mums for sunday lunch.I said I wasnt happy that he didnt want to see me on valentines day and that there is no point having a relationship together (so i thought he probably would be round his female friends house and that he would rather see her).Anyway I make other plans. He calls next day and says he has changed his plans so he can see me,I tell him ive made other plans now,he gets angry and upset saying he will be sat on his own now and if i dont come over to his place he is going to top himself,and he has nothing to live for if he hasnt got me.

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