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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My LD bf and I just broke up a little less than a month ago. It was pretty mutual, although he initiated it. Neither of us could handle the stress with no reward. We decided to remain friends, however in the last couple of weeks he has been calling, texting, and IMing me non-stop saying how much he loves and misses me. He wants to get back together but I told him that I didn’t think it was a good idea. So we still act like a LD couple, but technically we r not together. And through my very reliable sources I have learned that since our breakup he has been using online hook up sights to meet girls to have sex with. This bothered me a little but I was glad it wasn’t more than that he was looking for. I understand he has physical needs because so do I. and here's where my question comes. I’ve met this guy and we have started fooling around every once in a while, it’s pretty much just sex for me, but I think he might like me, however I gave him the low down on my ex and how I’m not ready to jump into anything. So what I want to know is, is what I’m doing totally wrong? I mean it doesn't feel wrong, but that’s what worries me. Is it ok that I’m having a fling while I’m biding my time until I can be with the guy I love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): If you love him, you wouldn't be able to have those flings. I say just drop the ex and move on, clearly it doesn't sound like it was meant to work out in the first place.
Sorry.
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