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writes:Hey everyone i finaly took everyones advice including you guys on leaving my unaffectionate boyfriend that never pays me any attention...... I cant stop thinking about him and i dont really want to leave him but he acts like he doesnt care about me ......how can i get over this feeling of needing to be with him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): I've been there.. just come out of a relationship that had this problem for years. I have some simple advice for you GET OUT and DON'T WASTE ANY MORE TIME. I wanted my ex to show me affection more than anything and I'd be thankful for any little scraps he threw me... I realised I was with him beacuse of who I thought he was when I fell for him.. and was blinded to the fact he's not the same person now.He was cheating on me.. for years... that's why he hadn't touched me. I used to put the lack of intimacy to the back of my mind and thought he was stressed and it was something that would return in time when he felt better. We tell ourselves all sorts of things when we don't want to see the truth about a person. Take my advice. End it. Affection is important.. don't EVER write it off as if it's something you can go without. That's what I did.. and it's nearly killed me finding out about the affair. Just end it and move onto someone who deserves you
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): It is only natural to think of someone when you have just broken up with them. It is the same when you are trying to watch what you eat have you ever noticed that, all you can think about is food. Anyway, try to keep yourself busy, don't sit at home, try and arrange to meet up with friends or take yourself off to the shops, it doesn't really matter what you do but try to do something. It will get easier as the days and weeks go.
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