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writes:hi seemed to atract men how only wanted sex , and am fed up as want more than that,now i have meet a man how wants to spend time with me treat me right and is lovley person has a fab job , and is very honest, the trouble is i just dont fancy him he fancys me not sure what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, manaja +, writes (4 November 2009):
If you dont fancy him , end it now, you need to be physically attracted to someone, if your not, then chances are your going to go off with someone else out there or worse play about behind his back, his personality and job wont save him from you doing that...theres plenty of men out there left that you'l find attractive and just as secure as this guy.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (4 November 2009):
 Do you fancy him even a little? If you do, then take a chance, spend some more time with him, see what he's like.
If you seriously don't see things happening between you two then it's better to let him know now and let him move on.
Also, don't feel like you have to be with him because he treats you right and has all these other qualities, you will just waste your time and his.
I'd say that if you like him even a little you should give it a chance, you never know, you might end up with someone really good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): first of all, it depends what you mean by fancy? There is so much more to a person than just looks. Try the new guy out or would you rather be used? Give tha man a chance
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reader, Multiple Orgasms  +, writes (4 November 2009):
He's not very honest. Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't get fancied. He obviously is... or there is a personal reason behind it that you may never know unless you learn to fancy him. But is it worth it if your fed up with sex only. I'm sure you had a friend before who had a similar situation but never realized she went through it. Why care for him then when you could care for her now...
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