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writes:My gf broke up with me like 3 months ago after about a year and a half. We tried being friends right off the bat, but it didnt work and we didnt talk for about two months. She calls me to hangout two days in a row and now she says she doesn't want to be friends, just friendly and that she doesn't want to hangout because she feels uncomfortable even though I acted as I would with my other friends. The next day I see her and she gives me the cold shoulder, but a couple days later shes talking to me like everythings fine. Am I right to assume that she's uncomfortable hanging out with me and stuff because she's afraid of those feelings coming back and she doesn't want them right now? If not why do you think she's so uncomfortable with me, but is hot and cold with me?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 November 2009):
This is really why exes shouldn't remain friends. She has done this because she knows it's painful and is trying to make it less so. Generally exes can't remain friends because there is too much drama and too much past. You would be much better telling her politely that it's time for you both to move on.
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