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anonymous
writes:I work with a guy whom I am interested in. Lately I have shown this by meeting up and spending a few hours together. Problem is, he's got a history of depression (which he has apparently got over now) and bullying which makes him rather reserved, for example, at work. But when we meet up, he has been fairly chirpy and we have lots of chat and fun! However, when we're not hanging out, he doesn't stay in touch very well... I don't get texts or phone calls from him (he's on contract for texts and because we're on the same network, we can call each other for free anytime of the day/night). Is this because he isn't keen on me even though he agrees to hang out? Or due to his 'illnesses'? I'm don't know which way to take this and unsure how to deal with him... very confused... Please help.
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reader, shania +, writes (4 November 2009):
 Its hard to say, it could be the depression thats making him act the way he is with you, but if you want to test the waters, i suggest you invite him out for a coffee or a meal, nothing too heavy and agree to meet up, rather then pussyfooting around because your not getting anywhere. The good sign is, he is chirpy with you so you obviously make him happy and uplift his mood a bit, he is probably lacking in self confidence, so why dont you push it along abit, he just needs more encouragment....Good luck.
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