He's hot then cold, but I won't give up! Need some ideas here!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I really like this guy and im tryin to get with him (: he flirts with me and told me im fit and stuff over text and msn which im happy about, he also flirted with me at a party but not varbally lol, that was the first time he noticed me. I hardly ever see him at school cos he's in sixthform a year above and its not really part of the school, so i havnt actually spoke to him in person yet. But some days i find it really hard to talk to him (well... text) cos i always seem to be the one that texts him first and then sometimes its hard to make convosation, i'll try my hardest to ask questions with more than a one word answer to get the convo rolling but he still manages to 'ruin' it, and i also try not to ask too many questions so i don't seem obsessed. But then other times we've text loads i once texted him all day and night! And then the other day he finally text me first sayin 'yo pal x' so i replied but he dint txt back and he said it was bcos he got busy and forgot. So he's like hot and cold. I wanted things to get movin and realised im gunna have to be the one to ask him if he wants to go out, but i wasnt sure, but my friends and even my mum encouraged me to, cos im quite shy lol. So i finally plucked up courage to ask ifhe fancied goin to the xmas lights turn on at the mall on friday night, he's always on about me goin to see him.. but his answer to that was i dont know cos iv not much time atm. So i said its ok if u dont wanna or cant nd he said he will see what he's doin on friday, so i don't know yet.. :/ i don't get him. He's gorgeous and single, its taken me forever to find someone so nice without a girlfriend nd i dont wnna lose him. I had seen him loadsa times before he noticed me at that party and have always really liked him. I just don't get what he's doing? Please no one tell me to forget about him cos i can't, nd i won't give up on something worth having. Sorry this is so long, but please help? Lol, it would also be great if you could give me some convo ideas, cos iv ran out lol and he's quite popular so i don't wna sound stupid. Thankyouu x

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