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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i with my current bf 'A' for 1 year. He is very good and care for me. I am very happy with him all this while. I am looking forward to marry him. We do have our shares of argueing sometimes and everytime we argued, he will said we are not understanding each other well enough and do you ever thought of it that our relationship will not work out in the future?. i really feel hurt when he asked me those questions. Therefore, he asked me to try out in the relationship for 3 years before come to marry stage. I am already 29 years old and i feel that it is abit too long for me to wait for 3 years. i did discussed with A but he is very firm in his decision. 1 mth ago, my ex'B' managed to contact me. He been calling me everyday. B and i have been together for almost 7 years. We broke up due to his overly possessiveness and ego and my family didnt like him that much. However, B is a faithful bf to me and he treated me good all these years. All i can said is..it was a very painful breakup to me and him. B told me that he has been waiting for me to return to his side for a year. He never give up. He said he is a changed man. He asked me to give him a 2nd chance to prove that he can give me happiness and he really love me and wanted to marry me. the question is, i dont know i still love him (B) or not after a year apart and i feel upset when i know he is suffering alone and waiting for me. Is it i pity him, therefore, i continue talk to him on the phone? Or it is i still have some feeling for him? Or is it my current relationship is in doubt, therefore, i cant see my future clear with A? i am torn between this 2 men, i feel so indecisive. i have to choose one of them and live my life. who shd i choose? A (wait 2-3years) or B (ex bf)? My family and friends said a person character is hard to change. They mean my ex B's character. pls advice.
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