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*luekev
writes:Hi guys its blue kev from girls ask guys. Guys we all know about the kind of woman we dream about and the kind of woman we meet in real life. How many times have we dreamed of a girl saying three simple words. I Like you. And she kinda floats like an Angel and is lit by the light of a thousand sons. But yet in real life it is rare to heat a girl say this before the actual dating stage. The girl may ask you questions. You may find out from her friend she has an interest but very rarely do women come right out and say this even when there thinking it. We have heard all the excuses. We don't want to scare the guy away. We don't want to come off as clingy or desperate. The fact is one of the biggest fantasies for a guy is when a girl tells him she likes him. And shows an interest. Remember guys don't have the same turn offs as girls do. We don't have as big an issue with girls being clingy as you girls have with us. Unless you go nuts and start damaging property or something. How many times have we guys dreamed of that girl saying she likes us or saying I would realy like to do something with you. Or could you carry my books home form school ot the library. Girls think this is to forward. Ladies don't believe the myth. If you let a guy know how you feel it is a huge turn on. Unfortunatly because women don't realize how much of a turn on this is the only time we meet a new girl who says this is after we go to sleep and before we wake up. Reply to this Question
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reader, bluekev +, writes (12 February 2009):
bluekev is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes michel 21. I want you to know that asking a guy out actualy enhances a womans qualities. Its not just that it takes the preasure off. A woman who shows her feelings and expresses her self is an amazing creature. When a girl tells a guy she likes him it is the sweetest things in the world. It makes the girl seem more feminin and more magical. it is so often hidden from guys that we don't get to see this side of women. A guy can for more in love with a girl who shows that she likes him. The idea that its a turnoff is not true.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 I like to feel needed or valued as a "man". Men have a built in need to feel like the provider. Even if it is not totally true, we still like to be valued for our male contribution. For instance, if I spent all day building a fence in the backyard, I'd feel good if my wife said....wow, good job, you really worked hard today.
Most men would walk through fire for the ones we love. We need to feel like the one who is expected to make the ultimate sacrifice, like in the old movies, women and children were always the ones saved first.
I know in this day and age of equality and sameness, these views may not be politically correct. They are not specific to individuals but generalizations that I think hold true.
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reader, nash  +, writes (8 February 2009):
110% agree with you bluekev, we love to feel needed.
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reader, michele21 +, writes (8 February 2009):
 well thats really intresting to know...i was lisening to the radio the other day and it was saying how the number one turn off for a guy is when a gurl is too clingy...im the type of girl if i want something i go after it im upfront and honest theres no sense in hiding how you feel or be scared of what the guy might think because if hes not the one then you'll know and really no sense in wasting your time and effort in someone if there not that intrested in you....so i think that is good advice you give just for women to be straight forward and say what they feel tell the guy and don't be ashamed or scared he won't bite your head off.....
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