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*upcakes
writes:Hi! These a boy who i went out with and then we split coz he wanted sex and i didnt also it turns out he was seeing some other girl just for sex! . Im only 14 and hes 16 so i wasnt ready. But hes asked since then first time i said yes but it didn feel right some how i felt like i had a weight on my shoulders and clostraphobic oldy. So i said it didnt feel right. Then when we split. (again!) but now 1/2 months on i crave him and i need him. But i have a feeling if i go back out with him ill feel odd again. Does anybody else feel like this? Or will all boyfreinds make me feel like this? Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Cupcakes +, writes (9 February 2009):
Cupcakes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx guys! you're right hes an idiot! I dont want sex anyway. Not yet. He wanted physical relationship. I wanted more emotinally. We did go far only two days into it. But he was my first bf. I was soooooo close to txt him yesterday but im glad i didnt. Thanx guys! Hope to help you in the future! Xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): Heyi was in a simliar situation to this about 2 months ago i am 14 too and the guy is 16we broke up 4 times cause i wouldn't have sex with him the 3rd time we got back togather we did it and it felt wrong i wish i hadn't now cause i later found out he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend the 2nd time we got back together stupidly we were not dating but i was craving forit so we just did it i felt so bad cause i knew he was using me for sex BUT I STILL DID IT!!! i still have feelings for him which are stupid but i can't help themjust try to put him to the back of your head and focus on school work at the momentlove bubs x
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 What a jerk. Leave your ex, leave him in the past where he belongs. He's just a horny barely legal teenager who is having too much trouble thinking with his brain and not his dick. You are way better than that, besides if you end up having sex with him, you know that's all he'll be with you because of. He won't respect you, treat you like a girl oughtta be treated... get another guy who just wants to be with you, not have mindless, loveless sex with you.
Not all guys are like this, I swear!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Don't waste your time been upset over breaking up with him, if he can't understand that you weren't comfortable having sex then he doesn't deserve to be in a relationship, he already pressured you into having sex in the first place which is something you should never feel you have to do. The feelings you are having at the moment will pass, so just forget about him and wait til you're in a loving relationship and feel readyC.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): He is too old for you. Yes I know two years isn't a lot but in teen years it is. He can have sex legally, he's ready mentally but your not. Your underage and your not ready. Don't feel forced by a guy who should know better. He sounds sad that he has to go after a young girl to get a date
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